What follows was presented by one of the masters that in Esther Hicks also found within this webpage here.
"Regarding your creation of your own life experience, there really is only one important question for you to ask:
How can I bring myself into vibrational alignment with the desires that my experience has produced?
And the answer is simple:
Pay attention to the way you feel, and deliberately choose thoughts - about everything - that feel good to you when you think them."
~ Ask and It Is Given by Jerry & Esther Hicks