Saturday, December 31, 2011

When You Hit Rock Bottom

Do not deny yourself from experiencing and acknowledging your down days.

There is a lesson to be learned from these days and once you have learned the lesson, you will avoid the experience.

And when you do get it, then you will rise up a stronger person than you were before you got hit by the Rock Bottom.

Happy New Year!


Friday, December 30, 2011

Thoughts Are Tools You Can Use Or Tools You Can Lose

Thoughts are tools you can use to sculpt the sculpture of your life.

Like the sledgehammer, single minded focus of working on a piece of stone until it folds to YOUR WILL.

It is your will that steers you to your experiences.

Your purpose in life is to write a new script of the thoughts you would prefer to have, based on the experiences you would want to see in your life.

By taking control of your life, by taking control of your thinking, you will lead yourself into a successful life for yourself.

By "successful life" I mean a life where you do what you want to do, when you want to do it.

"Guide your thoughts based upon how you feel."
~ Abraham-Hicks, authors of Ask And It Is Given



Thursday, December 29, 2011

There Are Certain Levels of Success That Need You to Have a Certain Level of Thinking In Order for You to Reach These Success Levels

You need a certain mindset to be successful in life.

And the best way to get this mindset is to study it.

Here are the Top Ten Classics of what I believe are the best books for you to not just read but to study on the subject of how your mind works.

  1. As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: which YOU can GET as a FREE eBook over at
  2. Awaken The Giant Within: How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny! by Anthony Robbins
  3. The Master Key System by Charles Hanel
  4. You Were Born Rich by Bob Proctor
  5. The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles
  6. Think and Grow Richby Napoleon Hill - A book I can send to you, in paperback version for free if you can meet me halfway by covering the postage fee...
  7. Mind Powers: How To Use And Control Your Unlimited Potential by Christian H. Godefroy
  8. Secret Of The Ages by Robert Collier
  9. The Power of Positive Thinking by Norma Vincent Peale
  10. Conversation With God: An Uncommon Dialogue - Book 1 by Neale Donald Walsch

Bubbling Under Are:

Dr Joe Vitale's Attract Money NOW! and;


Which are available for you, for FREE, on and respectively.

Happy Holidays.



Wednesday, December 28, 2011

How You Can Achieve Success Faster

One of the ways to achieve your goals faster is through modeling the actions of a successful person who is getting the results that you want to get in your life.

You will find that even Tony Robbins mentions this as a technique he even used on himself to accomplish measurable success in his life.

Finding mentors in your life that can help you get to where you want to be in your life, cuts down your learning curve and helps you get the results you want faster.



Monday, December 26, 2011

What They Meant When They Said You Need To Change Your Attitude

Quoted from an article by Earl Nightingale, Your Master

"The way that you think about a person is your attitude toward that person. The way that you think about your job is your attitude toward your job. Knowing this, you can perhaps understand the dramatic impact of this statement by William James, the great American philosopher and psychologist. He said, 'The greatest discovery of my generation is that men can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.'"

Happy Holidays,


Sunday, December 25, 2011

T'is The Time For Giving or Is It The Time For Forgiving?

You have yourself a Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year.

My suggestion is to use this festive season to forgive those that you believe have done you wrong.

Because as you let go, you heal apart of yourself.

Heal not for their sake, but for yours.

"While you're carrying a grudge, they're out dancing." ~ Buddy Hackett



Saturday, December 24, 2011

If Your Direct Efforts Are Getting You Nowhere, You Should Try Going At Them Indirectly

The Law of Indirect Effort, with regards to your health for examples, means that you don't get sick because you are sick.

Your sickness is a secondary factor. It is the effect.

You would need to get to the CAUSE of your problem.

With the Law of Indirect Effort you don't achieve what you want directly, but indirectly.

In the case above, you don't tackle the issue of sickness directly.

You tackle it at the CAUSE of the sickness.

When you only attack the symptoms, the sickness is bound to return.

It is only when you tackle both the symptoms and the root CAUSE of the symptoms that you are then in a more guaranteed road to better health.

If your direct effort is not giving you the results you want, look to how your indirect efforts might be the out-of-the-box method your are looking for to solving your problems.



Thursday, December 22, 2011

Awaken the Power Within YOU

Tony Robbins said it best when he said decision is the defining factor of our lives.

You might not have realized the releasing power that comes with making a decision.

It stops you from having all that indirected and exhausting energy of indecision and giving it an outlet of focus.

You then become driven and motivated as you MOVE FORWARD instead of you being STUCK.

As sickening feeling I'm sure you have also felt sometime in your life.

And that is why your ability to DECIDE can be such a liberating factor for you.

Just DECIDE and the universe will bend over backwards to make your decision a reality.



Wednesday, December 21, 2011

When You Use The News As The World's Barometer, You Are Sure To Eventually Become A Pessimist

You know on facebook when you comment on someone's status and then you end up having a whole discussion with someone who made a comment on what YOU commented on?

I had one of those yesterday, and she brought up some valid points...even though I agreed to disagree with her.

I was of the stand point that with the news (radio and TV) and media (advertising to even TV programmes) all perpetuate the negative issues of the world to such a point, that you could be led to believe that there are more bad things happening in the world than the good.

Her response was that things ARE like that - there being more bad than good - hence the "negative world" bias we keep hearing people talking about.

You see, that what Bob Proctor has explained to me as being called a Paradigm.

Love ♥


Monday, December 19, 2011

Your Intention Sets Your Reality

Quoted from "Developing Positive Self-Direction" By Denis Waitley

"It's interesting that corporations and institutions have clearly defined plans, but only the top achievers in life seem to have established the same kind of game plan for their own personal lives.

Most people spend more time planning a party, studying the newspaper, or making a Christmas list than they do in planning their own lives. But the winners, they set their daily goals the afternoon or evening before.

They put down a list on paper in a priority sequence the major things they'll do tomorrow.

And they select priorities that lead toward the achievement of their most important current goal; in other words, they're always thinking of goal achievement rather than a trivial pursuit to fill a time slot.

And that's really the key..."
Continue reading.



Sunday, December 18, 2011

Psalm 23

A Psalm of David.

1 The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

Thank you.

I love you.


Saturday, December 17, 2011

What You Believe Will Become Your Reality...

...even if what you believe is false.

If that's the case you will end up being at the effect of a false reality.

As in believing how certain things are true, when they are not, and then basing your responses and reaction on those untruths.

And your actions will then branch you off into paths that make you uneasy because you know, deep down, that you are going at it wrong.

We usually justify this feeling with "well, I don't have any other choice" or "this is how is it" or "what else can I do?"

If we listen to ourselves more than we listen to what others "THINK" we should do, I feel that we would experience more happiness in our lives.

And that's what we are all aiming for in life isn't it?

To experience lasting happiness.


When I say we must "listen to ourselves" in order for us to experience happiness, by taking action and progressive steps forward guided by our inner still, small voice - I am referring to the frequent use of our intuition.

People are learning more and more than intuition is not exclusively possessed by the gentle yet powerful female species of our race, but it is also available to men too.

It is a matter of getting in touch with this inner GPS so that it can be familiar to you, and because of your frequent counsel with your still, small voice within, it will soon become louder than the voices (opinions) of the outer world.

I'm sure you came across a time where you went along with what someone was saying, even though INtuitively you weren't really down with it.

This is your inner self, that has a bird's eye view on your life, trying to communicate to you and with you.

The tricky part comes when you have to distinguish between guidance from your inner self and interference from your ego self.

That is why getting in touch with your Inner Guide should be as important as breathing.

With practice you will KNOW the difference.

Your Guidance Is Internal

Every time you take the action your inner guide sponsors, your TRUST in the process seems to like increase the intensity of its future guidance for you.

The more you use your intuition or gut feeling or hunch or sixth sense, the more it will be available to you.

Matthew 25: 29 ~ For unto every one that hath shall be given, and he shall have abundance: but from him that hath not shall be taken away even that which he hath.

You will never "find" LASTING happiness in people or things.

The happiness you seek, like all emotions, is something you BECOME.

And it is when you BECOME HAPPY NOW that your still, small voice is at its loudest.

Your still, small voice is the voice that has the solutions to all problems known and unknown to man.

Matthew 6:33 ~ "But seek ye first the kingdom of God..."

And that "kingdom" is within YOU.

In truth, that kingdom is YOU.

The link I'm about to offer you will direct you to a previous blog post that will show you of one of the ways that you can become familiar with "your inner You," which will lead to you becoming a happier person - for your sake and those of the people in your life.

With committed, daily practice you too can become an expert in learning, first hand, the Power that comes in knowing How To Meditate.



Thursday, December 15, 2011

"The Fastest Way to Achieve Your Goals is to Stay On Purpose"

"It read: Production minus sales equals scrap.

"The executive noted, "Even valuable ideas can wind up on the scrap heap just because they weren't sold."

I wanted to send you an affiliate link recommending you to buy, read and USE this book I just picked up by Spencer Johnson (co-author of The One Minute Manager) and Larry Wilson. It's just that I have not finished reading it yet so I'm a bit apprehensive about the referral...

So far, it's an AWESOME book.

It's called The One Minute Sales Person The Quickest Way to More Sales with Less Stress.

It touches on how EVERY successful person is essentially a good sales person.

You see for me, I see "sales" as a character attribute that will help you to sell YOURSELF better, more than it is you selling products or services.

And The One Minute Sales Person The Quickest Way to More Sales with Less Stress touches on why that is EXACLTY the case.

Ask yourself:

How do you convince your kids to clean their rooms?

How best can you convince a potential employer that you are the best person for the job?

How do you bring about the relevant points of a presentation or deal you what to clinch?

You can do all this, and more, by being a better "sales person."

"Behind every sale is a PERSON."

How can you best influence your friends to go watch movie or try out this new restaurant you've just seen?

These skills fall under the "sales" umbrella and I believe there is no better time, in the world economy, than now where business (the money) needs more sales people.

The better your pitch, the higher the chances of you getting money...keeping in mind that money doesn't solve problems. It (money) just gives you more options, which extenuates who you are.



PS: No, I've thought about it. And I've decided that YOU NEED to get this BOOK!

I will give you the retail price it is selling for on below for you to see whether you would be able to invest in it if you can.

You too are involved in sales, not in the usual sense, but you sell your ideas to others on a daily basis.

And this makes you a successful person in your work or whatever it is that you do.

"The "Wonderful Paradox"

I have more fun and enjoy
More financial success

When I stop trying to
Get what I want

And start helping other people
Get what they want.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Challenges Aren't Meant To Take You Back, They Are Meant To Toughen You Up And Make You A Stronger Person As You MOVE Forward

The Meaning You Give It Is YOUR Reality.

What a crappy weekend!

There are certain injustices in the world.

After working so hard, spending time and money only to have what you own to be taken away from you just like that?!

Life is so unfair.

I feel loss.

Why me?

What have I done to deserve this?

I am offended.

How could they do this?

I feel grief.

This is going to be such an inconvenience.

I am shocked.

This is humiliating.

I am furious!

I am sad.

I feel violated.

I am hurt by this...

...ok. With that said, what do I do NOW to change my future results and outcomes?



I'm sorry, Please forgive me, I love you, Thank you.

This is "clearing" technique taught to me by Dr. Joe Vitale of in one of his life transforming masterpieces

==> Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More.

A book I recommend for you if you want to clear the limiting, unconscious beliefs that push away the things you want to bring in to your life.

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Monday, December 12, 2011

"What Do You Specialize In? What Is Your Focus?"

"In sales, in business, you have to be able to clearly articulate what you do in such a way as to make the person you’re communicating with say, “Wow, how do you do that?” Your ability to summarize the benefit of your product or service is the key to success in selling. If you can do that, you can make all the sales you want to make for the rest of your life."

Quoted from a T. Harv Ecker article "What Exactly Do You Do Again?" You can get the whole article when you go to

And for those of you who don't know, T. Harv Ecker is also the author of "Secrets of The Millionaire Mind" which explores why you have a financial blueprint that will keep you stuck only making a certain amount of income and nothing more...unless you change it.

T. Harv Ecker will show YOU how you CAN:



Friday, December 9, 2011

The Only Person That Can Change Your Life For The Better Is YOU!

Quoted from Allowing Emotions To Fuel Your Desire by Jim Rohn, author of "The Day That Turns Your Life Around"

"Whatever you do,  don't camp at the fork in the road. Decide. It's far better to make a wrong  decision than to not make one at all. Each of us must confront our emotional  turmoil and sort out our feelings."



PS: "PROMISE  YOURSELF YOU'LL NEVER GIVE UP." ~ Jim Rohn, author of "The Day That Turns Your Life Around."

And one of the ways you can do this is by programming your brain with daily motivation.

"People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily."
~ Zig Ziglar

This is why listening to motivating audios can be such a vital addition to your daily disciplines, that can help you in keeping your eye on the ball.

Because you can listen, while doing something else.

Not only listen but use these new ideas and adopt the life altering philosophy Jim Rohn will present to you through this audio program I am recommending for you.

And who knows, you might even mark this as The Day That Turns Your Life Around!

Thursday, December 8, 2011

"Our Deepest Fear" by Marianne Williamson - Sometimes Incorrectly Credited To Our Nelson Mandela

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.

Your playing small does not serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

~ Marianne Williamson



PS: The above quote was from Marianne Williamson's A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles" which will make for a wonderful addition to your growing library.

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Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Change Your Subconscious (Inner) Beliefs and You Change Your Conscious (Outer) Results

You will continue to attract the circumstances you do until you gain the courage needed to come up with practical solutions for them.

The circumstances you attract are in equal value to your subconscious beliefs.

When you consciously believe you want more money, for example, but you unconsciously have a belief that having too much money is a bad thing, your unconscious KNOWING will override your conscious BELIEF.

Want to know what your unconscious beliefs are?

Look at your results.

What is the state of your relationships?

What is the state of your bank account?

What is the state of your emotional well being?

What is the state of your physical fitness?

What is the state of your spirituality (if you are into that kind of thing)?

Your results are the mirror reflection of your inner core thoughts and beliefs.

These are the images your subconscious holds on to, the images you think about most, the images you emit. Images that you attract to yourself on the daily.

Change Your Subconscious (Inner) Beliefs and You Change Your Conscious (Outer) Results

It is only then that you would be able to attract the circumstances you prefer, instead of attracting the ones you don't.



Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Attitude Is The Key To Life by Bob Proctor

Victor Frankl once wrote, "Everything can be taken from a person but one thing: the last of human freedoms - to choose one's attitudes in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."

Frankl was right.

Attitude is a choice.

You could be faced with a thousand problems, many or most over which you have absolutely no control.

However, there is always one thing you are in complete and absolute control of and that is your own attitude.

When you surrender control of your attitude to what appears to be a negative situation, you will react to that situation. More often than not, reacting is inappropriate. On the other hand, if you were to remain objective, you would respond to the situation appropriately, thereby creating a winning situation.

If attitude is such an important word, why do so few people understand it?

To be honest, it wasn't until I was in my late 20s when I finally understood its full impact. All through my teens and into my early adult life, I can't tell you the number of times that I heard, "Bob, if you'd just change your attitude, you would do a lot better."

In retrospect I can easily see the cause of my problem. I didn't know what attitude was, let alone know how to change it!

Attitude is the composite of your thoughts, feelings and actions. Your conscious mind controls feeling and ultimately dictates whether your feelings will be positive or negative by your choice of thoughts, then your body displays those choices through action and behavior.

Attitude is actually a creative cycle that begins with your choice of thoughts.

You do choose your thoughts and that choice is where your attitude originates. As you internalize ideas or become emotionally involved with your thoughts, you create the second stage in forming an attitude; you move your entire being - mind and body - into a new "vibration."

Your conscious awareness of this vibration is referred to as "feeling". Your feelings are then expressed in actions or behaviors that produce the various results in your life.

Positive results are always the effect of a positive attitude.

Attitude and results are inseparable. They follow one another like night follows day.

What I mean by that is: one is the cause, the other, the result. There is a term we use to distinguish this "cause and effect" relationship, it is called The Law of Cause and Effect. Simply stated, if you think in negative terms, you will get negative results; if you think in positive terms you will achieve positive results.

Ralph Waldo Emerson reiterated that same point when he said, "A person is what they think about all day long."

The results you achieve in life are nothing more than an expression of your thoughts, feelings, and actions.

Take a close look at your life and evaluate the results you are achieving in various areas. See if you are able to relate your attitude to your results.

Winning and losing are opposite sides of the same coin - and that coin is attitude.

There are many things wrong in this world; unfortunately that is all some people are able to see. Those who view the world in this light are often unhappy and somewhat cynical. Usually, their life is one of lack and limitation and it almost appears as if they move from one bad experience to another. I know people who are like this and I'm certain you do as well.

It would appear as if they were born with a streak of bad luck and it has followed them around their whole life. These individuals are quick to blame circumstances or other people for their problems, rather than accepting responsibility for their life and their attitude.

Conversely, there are others who are forever winning and living the good life.

They are the real movers and shakers who make things happen.

They seem to go from one major accomplishment to another. They're in control of their life; they know where they are going and know they will get there. They are the real winners in life and their wins are a matter of choice.

You can experience that kind of life as well, you only need to decide. Making that simple decision is the first step to a new life.

Dorothea Brand once said, "Act as if it were impossible to fail," and I challenge you to do so.

By simply becoming aware that you can choose your thoughts each and every day, you will change your entire outlook. You have the power to choose an abundant life no matter your circumstances.

That active choice will allow other positive people and opportunities to be attracted into your life.

Don't wait to experience all the wonderful things the universe has in store for you.

Start today by working on your attitude and welcome the abundant life that you were meant to lead.

Bob Proctor

Bob Proctor is an Author, Speaker, and Life Coach. To get more information on how he can help you, go to:


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Monday, December 5, 2011

How Often Do You Use The 90 Seconds Rule?

Quoted from All It Takes Is 90 Seconds By Jim Fannin

"Too many thoughts, too much chaos,
just shut your eyes, unhinge your jaw, and for 90
seconds go blank. Literally see a dark screen on
your mind. Think no future, no past, just
immerse in the moment. Now this is not a
relaxation technique; this is a technique of just
clearing your mind of its thoughts."



Sunday, December 4, 2011

You Can Change The Tone Of Your Day By Lifting Your Thoughts From That Which Angers You, To That Which Brings You Calmness

"A Psalm of David.

"1 The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

"2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

"3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

"4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

"5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

"6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever."



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Friday, December 2, 2011

How Often Are You Grateful For Receiving...?

If you look hard enough, I am certain that you will find what you are looking for.

As in when you look into something with intent (whether to congratulate or to criticize) you will eventually get what you are looking for.

If you look hard enough.

If you put your mind into it.

So in the case of being the trained critic, you become so good at it that you take almost any opportunity to inform and educate as many people as you can, about how awful things are, and how worse they are going to become in the future.

You would feel that you would be doing them a disservice if you did not bring this to their attention.

And anyone who sees the world differently from how YOU perceive it, is being unrealistic.

To protect your family you make sure, without a shadow of a doubt, that they know how the "real" would is out there.

You pass this thinking from one generation to the next.

Because you are of the paradigm of, "Well, that's just how the world is."

I'm here to tell you that it's not.



Thursday, December 1, 2011

The World Needs A New Understanding Of Who & What "God" Is

A new way of looking at God is seeing Her as the medium by which you send and receive your requests through.

Because, as it is documented for me and you to give practical use to, ALL things are POSSIBLE WITH God.

It is when you do not align yourself with this Source Supply - Formless Substance, Infinite Supply, Infinite Intelligence, All Divine Providence, the Universe - would the things you want take longer to come into your life.

With practice and experience there will come a time where when you send a request to "God," there will be this KNOWING that will overcome you.

Because now you will become used to sending your goals or desires to "God" from an emotional and mental state of having already received them.

It is then that you now avoid giving your focus on the lack of what you want, to giving you focus on the RECEIVING of what you want.

You make the request and you move into an emotional and mental space of Acting As If you have already received - or at the most, having the perception that it is on its way to you.

But no amount of blogging could convince you of something YOU need to EXPERIENCE for yourself.

Thank you God now that I Am...[fill in the blank]

You complete this sentence with a request you would like to send out in a spiritual/ mental form, in order for you to receive your answered prayer back into your life in physical form.

What do you want to be in your life?

What do you want to do in your life?

What do you want to have in your life?

(Note: By "sending out" I am referring to you holding on to the mental image of the end result of what you want to attract into your life, for as long as you can, as many times as you can, with emotion. This is in a sense the practice of A True Prayer).

As you commit to the daily reviewing and reading aloud of this request to Source Supply see, in your mind's eye, you already being in possession of your desire.

You will get pretty good at this, just like anything you commit to doing daily, because repetition is the mother of all learning/ skill.

And your repetition demonstrates your level of persistence - your persistence is a demonstration of your level of FAITH in this attraction process.

So what you DESIRE, as you have fun playing daily, mental videos of having your desire, mixed with your daily repetition of your goal, will eventually become accepted by your unconscious.

It is only then, when your unconscious accepts what has been repeated to your mind at a conscious level, do you then "Attract What You Think About."

See article about the effect your unconscious has on your life.

When you question your beliefs in terms of whether they benefit your growth or not, you begin to break through those beliefs that are possibly limiting your life experiences.

And I believe the most important belief you must evaluate is your belief in who and what God is to your life.

And when you come to the True definition of God, as I have, your life will change forever.

Just like it continues to change for me after reading and re-reading a book that I KNOW will change your whole view of life!

But change can only come to you if you are open-minded enough to hear different answers and solution to your repetitive challenges.

I suggest you get yourself a copy of Neale Donald Walsch's "Conversations with God: An Uncommon Dialogue (Book 1)" for you to receive and, if accepted, begin to live your life with "God" instead of struggling without "God:"



Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Does The Joy Of The Moment Overshadow The Consequences Of Your Future?

Quoted from Jim Rohn's The Formula for Failure and Success

Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. We do not fail overnight. Failure is the inevitable result of an accumulation of poor thinking and poor choices. To put it more simply, failure is nothing more than a few errors in judgment repeated every day. Now why would someone make an error in judgment and then be so foolish as to repeat it every day?

The answer is because he or she does not think that it matters...



PS: Listening to motivational audios that bring to your attention ideas that you can use to start today to begin changing your life, qualifies as one of the daily disciplines Jim Rohn wrote for us in the above article.

And one of the audios that I believe will get you started on this road of continuous personal development, in the name of your better health, your better relationships and your improved finances is Jim Rohn's The Challenge To Succeed

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

You are a Warrior that ATTACKS What You FEAR

Just like Will Smith, I suggest you attack what you fear.

Fear is just an unproccessed evaluation of a thought or a belief you just had.

When you begin to question this belief, you begin to gradually march forth through the paper thin "unpleasant feeling aroused by the threat of danger, evil, or pain."

You will grow in inner strength, inner confidence and inner courage when you put yourself in the position of walking BOLDLY through things that used to make you cower away when they appear.

I don't know about you but I don't like being lesser of a Tshoaele in any situation.

My pride won't allow it.

“If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.”
~ Jim Rohn, author of The Challenge To Succeed

My challenge to you is to adopt the habit of attacking what you fear.

There is nothing more liberating than the freedom you get by letting go of your limiting beliefs.


Musa Tshoaele

PS: I recommend you begin to change your life for the better just as Jim Rohn did, as he documented his success principles in his "The Challenge To Succeed".

"The book you don't read, won't help." ~ Jim Rohn

Monday, November 28, 2011

You Are What You Believe

“This is one of the greatest laws in the universe. Fervently do I wish that I’d discovered it as a very young man? It dawned upon me much later in life. And I’ve found it to be one of the greatest if not my greatest discovery outside my relationship to God. And the great law briefly and simply stated is that if you think in negative terms you will get negative results. If you think in positive terms, you will achieve positive results. That is the simple fact, which is the basis of an astonishing law of prosperity and success. In three words:  BELIEVE AND SUCCEED!
~ Norman Vincent Peale, author of
"Power of Positive Thinking"

You attract who you are.

And the essence of who you are, I believe, is a Problem-Solver.

And you wouldn't be a problem-solver if you did not attract problems, to solve, to your Self.

Once you have attracted a solution for one thing, another issue will arise to take its place, for you to solve.

This is all in the name of your growth and mastering your skill to create.

You are a creative being.

Joe Vitale said it best when he said "You always get what you unconsciously believe and expect."

The sooner you get your head around ACCEPTING that you will ALWAYS encounter challenges in your life, the faster you can move into the mindset of taking one hundred percent responsibility for your life and creating and attracting solutions to meet your challenges.

You will be simultaneously contributing to the growth and expansion of the universe.

And the universe will reward you for your contribution towards its expansion.

All of life appreciates (makes bigger) and if you are a willing agent in its advancement - in service to others - the universe WILL, in one way or another, reward you.

And the more you Give, the more you Receive.

It is law.

The less you Give, the less you will Receive.

"What you don't use, you lose."

It is law.

So Sincerely Give More because your sincerity gives the universe the impression that you have more to give, and it will thus provide you with means for you to give more - all because of you acting as if you already have, through your act of Generosity.

In Abraham's words - of Abraham-Hicks teachings - "You should have fun with this."

You don't necessarily HAVE TO DONATE only in terms of your MONEY - even though if you genuinely give, without the thought of getting anything in return, more will be received by YOU.

Money Tip: Why do you think I left you a place for you to practice your abundance-giving via the Paypal donation button on the top right hand corner of this blog?

Keep in mind though that when you give, expecting something in return, you are limiting the amount of abundance that may come your way.

Give like you have more - Act As If - and more will be given to you, for you to give more, for more to be given to you, for you to give more, for more to be given to you, for you to give more...and so the upward prosperity cycle continues.

Yes. You would be correct in coming to the conclusion that when you give to others, you are, in fact, giving to yourself.

Giving is not limited to money though, you can give to others in your talents, your time, your experience and a variety of forms you can think of.

The idea is for you to feel good enriching the other person's life through your kind gesture of generosity.

If you want more, give more.



PS: Would YOU be interested in a FREE eBook on Ways of Attracting MONEY by one of the teachers from "The Secret"? Go to:

Friday, November 25, 2011

"...think about what you are thinking about." ~ Neale Donald Walsch

"...our inner conversations are the causes of the circumstances of our lives."
~ Neville Goddard.

Just like you, more and more people are becoming more and more aware about how our inner conversations are the commands that dictate our outer experiences.

"...our present mental conversations do not precedes into the past, as man believes, they advance into the future to confront us. As wasted or invested words."
~ Neville Goddard.

What I have found is that the biggest challenge you will come across, when you want to install new empowering affirmations - so that there will, one day, come a time when you believe them at a subconscious level - are your associations.

As subtle as this form of brain suggestion might be, you are influenced, little by little, by the people you spend most of your time with. To a point where you don't even see that the relationship is, in fact, bad for you or not in alignment with your ultimate goal/ desire.

You see how your love for another could be blinding?

If you want to adopt the habits that will take you from where you are, to where you want to be, but you hang around people who are "Ok" with where there are right now, and associate fear in the actions needed for them to make progress in life, then you too will eventually become crippled by the idea advancing.

You will soon begin to sow doubt, fear and worry inside of yourself.

And as ye sow, so shall ye reap.

And you then become STUCK because you have taught your mind to believe in limiting beliefs that you have set for yourself.

"...what you do in your imagination, is the only important thing."
~ Neville Goddard.



Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Note From Esther About Jerry

"Dear friends,

"Our sweet Jerry made his transition into Nonphysical last Friday..."

You Are Loved. All Is Well.



What Happens When Your Core Set of Thoughts and Belief Shift In The Other Direction?

"...another paradigm-shifting experience as told by Frank Koch in Proceedings, the magazine of the Naval Institute.

"Two battleships assigned to the training squadron had been at sea on maneuvers in heavy weather for several days.

"I was serving on the lead battleship and was on watch on the bridge as night fell.

"The visibility was poor with patchy fog, so the captain remained on the bridge keeping an eye on all activities.

"Shortly after dark, the lookout of the bridge reported, "Light, bearing on the starboard bow."

"Is it steady or moving stern?" the captain called out.

"Lookout replied, "Steady, captain," which meant we were on a dangerous collision course with that ship.

"The captain then called to the signalman, "Signal that ship: We are on a collision course, advise you change course 20 degrees."

"Back came a signal, "Advisable for you to change course 20 degrees."

"The captain said, "Send, I'm a captain, change course 20 degrees."

"I'm a seaman second class," came the reply. "You had better change course 20 degrees."

"By that time, the captain was furious. He spat out, "Send, I'm a battleship. Change course 20 degrees."

"Back came the flashlight light, "I'm a lighthouse."

"We changed course."

Excerpt from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey, pages 32 and 33.



Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Did I Tell You That Oprah Has A New Book Out?!

“If you fall, fall on your back. If you can look up, you can get up.” ~ Les Brown

I would be doing you an injustice if I didn't bring this to your attention.

This week Oprah Winfrey just released her New Book: The Oprah Winfrey Show: Reflections
on an American Legacy
by Deborah Davis

This Captain of the Entertainment industry was able to see beyond her then current circumstances, and forged a way, through service, into creating a living environment that supports her cause and purpose in life.

And it still is beautiful.

Lately I've opened up to the idea of how can I best service others and also bring fulfillment and contempt to myself.

How can I best use the Law of Indirect Effort to create a Win-Win scenario for the people I serve and for myself as well.

And that's when God brought Oprah to my attention, only to also discover that she has a new book out.

Which happens to be a collection of essays, poems and tributes to The Oprah Winfrey Show Legacy by notables like Maya Angelou, Bono, Ellen
DeGeneres, Nelson Mandela (Whoop! Whoop!), Toni Morrison, Julia
Roberts, Maria Shriver, Gloria Steinem, John
Travolta, namely.

The true measure of your self worth should be how much you gave to the day, not how much you took from it.

You are a spirit, in the form of a human being, that is here to contribute.



PS: A toast to you Ms Winfrey, thank you for the lessons you have learned through your struggles.

I also thank you for taking this growing process further by teaching us, your children, about how these temporary obstacles have BENIFITED your life, even if - at the time - there was nothing beneficial about it.

I love you.

Thank you.

Monday, November 21, 2011

When You Become Conscious (So It Is Without) , You Realize That Everything You Are Experiencing Is Because Of Your Subconscious (As Within)

"We don’t trust car salesmen because we know
they’re typically more concerned with what
they’re getting out of the deal than with
meeting our needs.

"Then why do we throw our money to anyone
who calls him- or herself a “financial planner” — who also
works solely on commission (and usually sells only one or two products)?"

Click here to continue reading this article.

As common as it is, this is a backward approach to business/ service.

It might be hard to get your head around this because you might have been, because I definitely was, taught that it's All about the money.

But if this is true, and you are doing all you can to GET the money, then why DOESN'T the money COME?

Well, could it be that maybe it's really NOT about the MONEY...?

As mentioned in a previous post that your alignment with your desires is really the determining factor in how quickly that which you desire will come to you.

If you are feeling negative about what you want, desiring but complaining about not having received it, then you are not one with your desire.

You are out of harmony with what you want to come in to your physical life experience.

But if you are wanting and feeling good about the possibility of its coming, feeling hopeful, feeling calm and cheerful, feeling grateful about the things YOU already HAVE - as an excuse to get you in alignment with what you are in the process of attracting - then opportunities rush at you to fulfill you abundant feeling state.

This is the true meaning of the axiom that I'm sure you might have heard of in that "God helps those who help themselves."

You need to train yourself to be in the vibration of allowing (positive mental and physical state) more often that you are in a repulsive vibration - a negative mental and physical state.

Take control of what you think and say and do because these tools create your life, eventually.

Because if you do not, this is uncommonly known as creating by default.



Sunday, November 20, 2011

"The Man Who Thinks He Can" by Walter D. Wintle

"If you think you are beaten, you are;
If you think you dare not, you don't;
If you'd like to win, but you think you can't,
It's almost a cinch you won't;
If you think you'll lose, you've lost,
For out of the world you'll find
Success begins with a fellow's will -
It's all in the state of mind.

"Full many a race is lost
Ere even a race is run
And many a cowards fails
Ere even his work's begun.
Think big, and your deeds will grow,
Think small and you fall behind,
Think that you can and you will;
It's all in the state of mind.

"If you think you are outclassed, you are;
You've got to think high to rise;
You've got to be sure of yourself before
You can even win a prize.
Life's battle doesn't always go
To the stronger or faster man;
But sooner or later, the man who wins
Is the fellow who thinks he can.
~ Walter D. Wintle



PS: I actually got introduced to this wonderful poem while reading Robert Collier's "Secret of the Ages."

This book is in my Top Three Most Influential and Life Changing Reads of All Time!!!

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Oprah Winfrey Does The Tony Robbins Fire Walk

After spending the day with my mom and girlfriend, I am ending off my Saturday with my 77 year old gran.

Gran is doing fine.

Love and support is healing.

While my aunts were where attending to her, I went over my facebook timeline and I come across a Tony Robbins update.

This is the link that inspired me for my update.



PS: if you watched The Oprah Winfrey Show, then having this book "The Oprah Winfrey Show: Reflections on an American Legacy" on your library is a Must-Have as it celebrates the contribution made by Ms. Winfrey, the contribution she continues to offer with OWN - See - with essays and praises made by the likes of Maya Angelou, Bono, Ellen DeGeneres, Nelson Mandela, Toni Morrison, Julia Roberts, Maria Shriver, Gloria Steinem, John Travolta and more.

If you would like to awaken that good-feeling Oprah-Effect you had while watching one of her shows, then you will definitely fall in love with this hardcover...

Friday, November 18, 2011

"TAKE A MOMENT TO REALIZE" By Sue Bell, Author of The Olive Leaf

“To realize the value of a sister/brother, ask someone who doesn’t have one.    

"To realize the value of ten years, ask a newly divorced couple.   

"To realize the value of four years, ask a graduate.   

"To realize the value of one year, ask a student who has failed a final exam.  

"To realize the value of one month, ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.   

"To realize the value of one week, ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.   

"To realize the value of one minute, ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.  

"To realize the value of one second, ask a person who has survived an accident…..Time waits for no one. 

"Treasure every moment you have. 

"You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone.

"To realize the value of a friend or family member: LOOSE ONE."
~ By Sue Bell, author of The Olive Leaf



PS: For more information about Sue Bell, Click »» HERE.

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Develop The Habit Questioning Your Beliefs: Are They Pushing You Towards Success Or Are They Holding You Back?

"...and then people ask, "Where does he get all that energy?" You don't get energy you release energy!" ~ Bob Proctor, co-author of The Secret.

You might think there is more to it than this, but there isn't.

The ever flowing bundle of joy you came in to this world with is your true nature.

As you grew up you, like most of us, associated restrain with maturity.

Choking out your very essence that makes you Golden.

One of many misconceptions that get in the way of your happiness.




"...whatever thought has done in your life, it can be undone through a shift in your awareness." - Rev. Dr. Michael Beckwith

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Abraham's Take On How You Create By Default

What is, "creating by default"?
It is setting into motion the creation of something that you really do not want, by giving your attention, or focus of thought, to it until it is created, and MUCH OF WHAT YOU ARE EXPERIENCING WOULD FALL INTO THAT CATEGORY.
The usual response when one hears for the first time that they are the creator of their life experience and that all that they are experiencing, without exception, is by their own doing is,

"How can that be? I would not have created this thing that I do not want."
~ Abraham-Hicks



The Right Time Will Come For You, So Get Busy Getting Your Timing Right

Life works in cycles.

There's a cycle to every thing, night and day, winter and spring, work and play, rise and fall, it even reaches out to people's life circumstances: the good times and the not so good times.

You need to catch your "better life" cycles or at least prefer for them.

People get so caught up in dips of their cycles they fail to see that their cycle is entering the "Good Times" phase of their cycle.

It might be normal for you to exist in discomfort but it is not natural.

I will say it again.

It might be normal for you to exist in discomfort but it is not natural.

Nature has it setup that all things have a reset button that, at first, looks like things are going south.

The purpose for this reset button, if allowed to roll out, is to strengthen and better and be in harmony with the forward movement momentum of life itself.

It is rhythm of life.

It's just life breathing in and then breathing out.

For progress to be made you need rest.

You will burn out when you go at it on all cylinders without resting.

So be grateful for this resting phase.

You are now building the strength you need to launch yourself to the next level.

As grateful as you are for this time of "inactivity" be burning & desiring & yearning for the coming opportunity that will TAKE YOU to the next level.

You need to lift your head up (metaphorically & literally) to this opportunity.

You need to lift your head up to your Jozi :]

When I was growing up, what I couldn't find in Soweto I always used to find in Johannesburg.

That's because I got up off my ass and went out to go get mine!

I went out in search of my opportunity.

Only to find that it was on the lookout for me too.

Acknowledge your current circumstances.

Accept them.

Allow them.

And use the energy of your discomfort to move you into the next level.

One level at the time.

One step at a time.

One day at a time.

And with that kind of momentum your cycle of success will catch on to you as it turns.

With every 360 degrees made it will be your turn to move higher.

The law of opposites says for every bad there's a good.

So for every cuff up there's a lift up.

Your task is to look out for these lift ups regardless of the cuff ups in your environment.

Success is a state of mind.

You need a different kind of mindset.

You thinking differently will make you see differently.

See the opportunity in your problems.

You change You, not the circumstances.

You change You First, then your environment will mirror your mental change.

Your mental imagery.

Find your Cycle of Pleasure, so that you can break away from your Cycle of Pain.

Disclaimer: if you find that you are waiting to long for your time to come George Bernard Shaw said it best: "People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can't find them, make them."

(c) Musawenkosi Tshoaele, 2011. All rights reserved.

Friday, November 11, 2011

Infinite Supply Is Never Offline So Keep Connected

Any time I have a pressing problem I am powerless to solve I find a quiet place and begin having a talk with this guy I know, who once had little problem of creating an entire planet in under 7 days... from scratch.

Funny enough, as luck would have it, he managed to pull it off.

So if you too think there's no hope or no solution for your overwhelming problem, write Him a verbal email, and update your GodBook status.

I'm sure He can give you a few tips here and there on how you can go under,

go over,

go around or

go through the temporary difficulties of your beautiful and amazing life.

Good Morning, and a Happy 11.11.11



Wednesday, November 9, 2011

You Need To Trust The Process

Your ability to write your goals down, as in your intended outcomes and not "how" you aim to accomplish them, could sometimes be all you need to achieved them.

The only catch I've found is in your ability to TRUST in the Power of Written Goals.

Out of the "impossible" eighty goals I wrote down a month ago, I've managed to achieve sixteen of them.

Is that a 20% goal achieving rate?

Some of them (your goals) needed me to TAKE inspired ACTION to achieved them, some of them didn't, but you will never know what benefits this simple, life changing process can have in your life unless you try it out for yourself!

It's as simple as you taking a blank piece of paper and writing down what you would like to see happen for you in your life.

Adidas were right, Impossible is nothing, so write down goals that you would like to see happen, no matter how "impossible" you think they are for you.

And keep this goal list private, there is no need for you to share it with anyone else.

Have fun.


Find pleasure in this process as you take the time to write out exactly the way you want things to be.

Don't feel anxious or dread or doubt or worry or fear about HOW they will come to you, leave that to the universe.

Your aim is to find pleasure in this process and for you to be calm and cheerful as you allow yourself to dream ^_^

Write down your goals, review them daily, edit them for clarity if you want to (the clearer your goals are the fast they become accomplished) and take action, if you feel inspired to, towards their accomplishment.

Leave the HOW to the universe, to God, you just need to be crystal clear on the WHAT.

Yours in goal setting and goal achieving,


Monday, November 7, 2011

In This Information Age, Guess What Do You Need To Live A Rich, Healthy and Loving Life? Information...

...Only if you USE the Information though.

"The principles work if you work the principles." ~ "Jack Canfield, author of The Success Principles.

Another way to keep yourself motivated is to:

#1. Pick your favorite quote,

#2. And then start reading the biography of the person who was quoted.

"Every failure brings with it the seed of an equivalent success." ~ Napoleon Hill, author of Think And Grow Rich.

From these bios you can identify what made these people so great, that people like you and me enjoy reading their quotes, and then copying their "success formulas" and seeing how effective they will be in our own lives.

"Success leaves clues." ~ Anthony Robbins, author of Awaken The Giant Within.

You forget, thanks to you ego, that you are not the only one in the history of the world to be having whatever temporary difficulties you might be having.

And thanks to the curse/cure of the internet, there is a very high chance that these influential people not only documented their struggles, but also documented what they did to muscle through them...and this information is available for YOU, NOW. Via the Net.

But that's the thing YOU have got to USE this liberating information.

Because what you don't use, you lose.

"I do not want the peace that passeth understanding. I want the understanding which bringeth peace." ~ Hellen Keller.

What I have discovered to being the common thread that runs through most of the Abundant, Successful Life teachers is the practice of daily gratitude.

You have much in life, and it is from your daily appreciation of what you ALREADY have, will YOU then achieve and RECEIVE your DESIRES.

"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you'll never, ever have enough." ~ Oprah Winfrey, author of The Oprah Winfrey Show: 20th Anniversary Collection

I love you.

Thank you.

© Musa Tshoaele. All rights reserved.

Sunday, November 6, 2011

You Need To Put Your Mind Into It

God answers your prayers, He gives you what you want, to the degree that you BELIEVE you can have it.

If you believe you want something but have a feeling of dread or scarcity every time you think about it, you are stifling the power of your prayer.

In fact, you are killing it.

Your request is flawed, since you are wanting it, and fearing having it, simultaneously.

It's like ordering a pizza then, in mid-delivery, you order for a burger instead...then ask for the pizza again...then figuring you are actually craving for some beef stew...then wondering why your order is taking so long to come.

It's at that point that most usually stop believing in God.

Not because God doesn't your answer prayers, but because you lack the persistence and consistency of seeing your prayer through until the end.

By "until the end" I mean until your request is fulfilled.

Until your prayer is answered.

"What you believe, in prayer, you will receive."

"Believe and succeed."

"Whatever the mind can conceive, and believe, it will achieve."

What then of the person who wants something so deeply but doesn't believe she can have it?

That is where daily affirmations come in...

(c) Musawenkosi Tshoaele. All rights reserved.

Saturday, November 5, 2011

You Need To Put Your Heart Into It

You attract in accordance to your unconscious beliefs.

For you to change your reality, you need to change your beliefs.

"The law of attraction responds to your subconscious mind." - Bob Proctor.

You have the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.

For you to gain access to your subconscious mind, you need to go through your stubborn, hard headed, stone cold conscious mind.

The part of your mind that rejects new beliefs and reinforces old beliefs.

Even if you want to impress upon your subconscious mind new empowering beliefs so to do away with the old disempowering ones.

The way to get through to your subconscious mind is through the daily repetition of information.

#1. Write out in one statement what you don't want.

#2. Using the previous statement as a reference, now write out what you DO want.

#3. Destroy statement #1. It does not represent you any more.

#4. Re-write your now empowering statement in the present tense, as if you are seeing it, hearing it, tasting it, touching it and smelling it now.

#5. Read this statement out aloud first thing in the morning, as often as you can throughout the day, and last thing before you bed.

And during the day taking any inspired action that you feel would lead you closer to whatever your statement is.

If you do this repeatedly, religiously, daily and with determination - what you have written will come to pass.

Because now you would come to believe what you want, and God only answers to those who believe.

Believe in Him or Believing in the process or Believing in the receive.

"Believe and succeed." - Norman Vincent Peale.

And that is how "God" works, you can even call it God's work or even God Work.

© Musawenkosi Tshoaele. All rights reserved.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Now That You Know Your Goal, Emotionally Align Yourself To Having Received It

Jerry had a card that he kept in his wallet of goals.

And a friend said,"Do you still keep that card in your wallet? Are you still setting goals in that way?"
And Jerry said, "No. I don't set goals. I have a different understanding now. Everything I want just comes. I realize I put the stuff in my vortex long ago, and now my work is different."
And we want to say, "you've already put all of that into your vortex. And now your work is aligning vibrationally with what you put there. And when you do, satisfaction is immediate."

5/29/10 Stamford, CT: Abraham-Hicks of



PS: And not only will this enlighten YOU about what the vortex is, but it will get you HOOKED on it!!

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

The Other Side Of The Apple...

If you are amongst those who have yet to read the Steve Jobs bio, here's you chance to get it here.

Take nothing away from the guy, he was a force to be reckoned with.

From what I've heard, even Henry Ford wasn't a saint, but his work will be forever read, quoted and retweeted by you and me.

"Whether you think you can, or you think you
can't -- you're right."
~ Henry Ford.

In hindsight there will always be talk about how you could have done this or that in a better.

People talk whether you do the thing or not, that is why it is important not to give a tart about what other people say about YOUR life.

"If you want something, for get it. PERIOD." ~ Chris Gardner played by Will Smith in "The Pursuit of Happyness."



Monday, October 31, 2011

"Positive Energy Breeds Positive Events And Negative Energies Only Breed Negative Events And Circumstances"

On twitter I aim to follow as many inspiring and goal achieving and life enriching people as I can, especially when you talk about things like daily disciplines, visualizing, motivation, taking action even meditation.

And amongst them is @mindsatori of whom I also recommend you follow in order for you to enrich you mind.

In fact @mindsatori is the reason behind this blog, since I wanted to refer to you on their latest article here.

Today is a good day, I will rejoice and be glad in it.



Sunday, October 30, 2011

YOU Are Validated!

Never got the chance to say THANK YOU Sam (@Sam_isto)

YOU are the BEST.

YOU are AWESOME and I LOVE YOU. #nohomo

Yours in validation,


Friday, October 28, 2011


Men Are Like Rubber Bands

Chapter 6

Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again.

Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle.

Women misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for different reasons. She pulls back when she doesn't trust him to understand her feelings, when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappointed her.

Certainly a man may pull away for the same reasons, but he will also pull away even if she has done nothing wrong. He may love and trust her; and then suddenly he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself and then come back all on his own.

A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully stretched away, then instantly he will come springing back. When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love and intimacy again. Automatically he will he more motivated to give his love and receive the love he needs. When a man springs back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away. He doesn't feel any need for a period of getting reacquainted again.


YOU need to BUY Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships to find out ^_^

I love you.


Thursday, October 27, 2011

Humble Yourself To The Process Of Receiving By Letting Go Of The "How" It Would Come To You, And Focus On The "What"

I don't recall what school of thought it was that said awareness is the first step towards healing.

Identifying that "The Devil" exists within limiting beliefs (anxiety, doubt, worry, fear, procrastination, criticism, etc) makes you a better manipulator of energy.

By going within regularly, and entering into a state of prayer, requesting and believing that Divine Spirit snaps away the invisible, mental chains that stop us from better life circumstances, you immediately place yourself in a state of power.

And the more you go within in prayer, or meditating on the change that you are in the process of receiving without, the more powerful you will become in living your life by design, and not by default.

"Be Still, and KNOW, that I am God."



Wednesday, October 26, 2011

"Love" Is Your Answer

When you look at the word "Present" you could also dissect it into the words "Pre" "Sent" as in what you are experiencing now is the result of your pre-sent vibration.

By "vibration" I mean your thought-energy, your emotion-energy, and your action-energy of the past - the state of mind you were in your past will manifest into event and people in your future.

So guess what needs to happen for you to receive positive experiences in the future?

You need to practice repeatedly releasing positive vibrations now, in the form of love-filled thoughts, love-filled words and love-filled actions or deeds.

"Repetition is the mother of all skill." - Tony Robbins

Be IN love, because when you are IN the state of love, all that you do will be Loving.

And thus attract love-inspire circumstances towards you.

"As within, so it is without." - Neale Donald Walsch.

Yours in love,


Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Your Outward Success Is Determined By Your Inward Attitude About Your Ability To Succeed

Musa would like to thank the co-founder of the brilliant Anti ClockWise Designs for this life enriching "Choose Day" message that he sent via my BlackBerry Messenger.

"With a great attitude we can turn obstacles into opportunities and struggles into success.

We subconsciously choose our attitude every moment of every day.

We need to become conscious of our attitudes though, because it is easy to react to challenges with a destructive attitude.

We can then make the situation worse.

But with a constructive attitude, one that is open, teachable, gracious, understanding and co-operative, we will come through the challenge a stronger person, more reliable and a greater asset.
Start being aware of your attitude towards different people and situations.

Is your attitude helping you win or lose?


    I choose to have a great attitude

    I face challenges with enthusiasm

    Today is a fantastic day

Choose your attitude well.

Happy Choose Day!"

Yours in Love,


Monday, October 24, 2011

At Times You Need To Go Mental For You To Conquer The Physical

If things aren't going your way, consider the possibility that there is a negative, limiting belief that you hold about yourself that is pushing it away from you.

Once you release that thought-belief then the good you are wanting will materialize.

Thank you.

I love you.


Sunday, October 23, 2011

Today, God Wants Me To Tell You About...

The Simple, But Powerful Prayer First Morrnah, pray you love it as much I do:

"Divine creator, father, mother, son as one ...

"If I, my family, relatives and ancestors have offended you, your family, relatives and ancestors in thoughts, words, deeds and actions from the beginning of our creation to the present, we ask your forgiveness ...

"Let this cleanse, purify, release, cut all the negative memories, blocks, energies and vibrations and transmute these unwanted energies to pure light ... And it is done."



Saturday, October 22, 2011

"We Will Either Find a Way, Or Make One." ~ Hannibal

"No matter how prepared you are, there's one thing that I can absolutely guarantee: if you're on the river of life, it's likely you're going to hit a few rocks.

"That's not being negative; that's being accurate.

"The key is that when you do run aground, instead of beating yourself up for being such a "failure," remember that there are no failures in life.

"There are only results.

"If you didn't get the results you wanted, learn from this experience so that you have references about how to make better decisions in the future.

An excerpt from my Anthony Robbins current read: Awaken the Giant Within : How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny!

Yours in continuous personal development,