Monday, October 31, 2011

"Positive Energy Breeds Positive Events And Negative Energies Only Breed Negative Events And Circumstances"

On twitter I aim to follow as many inspiring and goal achieving and life enriching people as I can, especially when you talk about things like daily disciplines, visualizing, motivation, taking action even meditation.

And amongst them is @mindsatori of whom I also recommend you follow in order for you to enrich you mind.

In fact @mindsatori is the reason behind this blog, since I wanted to refer to you on their latest article here.

Today is a good day, I will rejoice and be glad in it.



Sunday, October 30, 2011

YOU Are Validated!

Never got the chance to say THANK YOU Sam (@Sam_isto)

YOU are the BEST.

YOU are AWESOME and I LOVE YOU. #nohomo

Yours in validation,


Friday, October 28, 2011


Men Are Like Rubber Bands

Chapter 6

Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again.

Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle.

Women misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for different reasons. She pulls back when she doesn't trust him to understand her feelings, when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappointed her.

Certainly a man may pull away for the same reasons, but he will also pull away even if she has done nothing wrong. He may love and trust her; and then suddenly he begins to pull away. Like a stretched rubber band, he will distance himself and then come back all on his own.

A man pulls away to fulfill his need for independence or autonomy. When he has fully stretched away, then instantly he will come springing back. When he has fully separated, then suddenly he will feel his need for love and intimacy again. Automatically he will he more motivated to give his love and receive the love he needs. When a man springs back, he picks up the relationship at whatever degree of intimacy it was when he stretched away. He doesn't feel any need for a period of getting reacquainted again.


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I love you.


Thursday, October 27, 2011

Humble Yourself To The Process Of Receiving By Letting Go Of The "How" It Would Come To You, And Focus On The "What"

I don't recall what school of thought it was that said awareness is the first step towards healing.

Identifying that "The Devil" exists within limiting beliefs (anxiety, doubt, worry, fear, procrastination, criticism, etc) makes you a better manipulator of energy.

By going within regularly, and entering into a state of prayer, requesting and believing that Divine Spirit snaps away the invisible, mental chains that stop us from better life circumstances, you immediately place yourself in a state of power.

And the more you go within in prayer, or meditating on the change that you are in the process of receiving without, the more powerful you will become in living your life by design, and not by default.

"Be Still, and KNOW, that I am God."



Wednesday, October 26, 2011

"Love" Is Your Answer

When you look at the word "Present" you could also dissect it into the words "Pre" "Sent" as in what you are experiencing now is the result of your pre-sent vibration.

By "vibration" I mean your thought-energy, your emotion-energy, and your action-energy of the past - the state of mind you were in your past will manifest into event and people in your future.

So guess what needs to happen for you to receive positive experiences in the future?

You need to practice repeatedly releasing positive vibrations now, in the form of love-filled thoughts, love-filled words and love-filled actions or deeds.

"Repetition is the mother of all skill." - Tony Robbins

Be IN love, because when you are IN the state of love, all that you do will be Loving.

And thus attract love-inspire circumstances towards you.

"As within, so it is without." - Neale Donald Walsch.

Yours in love,


Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Your Outward Success Is Determined By Your Inward Attitude About Your Ability To Succeed

Musa would like to thank the co-founder of the brilliant Anti ClockWise Designs for this life enriching "Choose Day" message that he sent via my BlackBerry Messenger.

"With a great attitude we can turn obstacles into opportunities and struggles into success.

We subconsciously choose our attitude every moment of every day.

We need to become conscious of our attitudes though, because it is easy to react to challenges with a destructive attitude.

We can then make the situation worse.

But with a constructive attitude, one that is open, teachable, gracious, understanding and co-operative, we will come through the challenge a stronger person, more reliable and a greater asset.
Start being aware of your attitude towards different people and situations.

Is your attitude helping you win or lose?


    I choose to have a great attitude

    I face challenges with enthusiasm

    Today is a fantastic day

Choose your attitude well.

Happy Choose Day!"

Yours in Love,


Monday, October 24, 2011

At Times You Need To Go Mental For You To Conquer The Physical

If things aren't going your way, consider the possibility that there is a negative, limiting belief that you hold about yourself that is pushing it away from you.

Once you release that thought-belief then the good you are wanting will materialize.

Thank you.

I love you.


Sunday, October 23, 2011

Today, God Wants Me To Tell You About...

The Simple, But Powerful Prayer First Morrnah, pray you love it as much I do:

"Divine creator, father, mother, son as one ...

"If I, my family, relatives and ancestors have offended you, your family, relatives and ancestors in thoughts, words, deeds and actions from the beginning of our creation to the present, we ask your forgiveness ...

"Let this cleanse, purify, release, cut all the negative memories, blocks, energies and vibrations and transmute these unwanted energies to pure light ... And it is done."



Saturday, October 22, 2011

"We Will Either Find a Way, Or Make One." ~ Hannibal

"No matter how prepared you are, there's one thing that I can absolutely guarantee: if you're on the river of life, it's likely you're going to hit a few rocks.

"That's not being negative; that's being accurate.

"The key is that when you do run aground, instead of beating yourself up for being such a "failure," remember that there are no failures in life.

"There are only results.

"If you didn't get the results you wanted, learn from this experience so that you have references about how to make better decisions in the future.

An excerpt from my Anthony Robbins current read: Awaken the Giant Within : How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny!

Yours in continuous personal development,


Friday, October 21, 2011

You Gotta Work It For It To Work For You

After reading a blog update by Internet Empire Specialist Pat O'Bryan, I discovered that at first when you study the laws of the universe that govern your circumstances, one might be mislead into thinking that success comes to you when you are always positive.

As "when YOU are ALWAYS positive."

In other words you are not permitted to feel down and sad.

You must always be upbeat and positive.

Which is BS.

It is true that when you are feeling negative and you hold the mental images with your negative feelings repeatedly and for long periods, you WILL attract negative people and events.

But the conflict that will be produced by you feeling awful and then putting a positive front is a lie that will eat at your conscious.

This internal conflict emits a signal of disorder to the universe, which will result in the attraction of disorderly people and events.

The solution is to clear away the negative feelings you have about yourself and your current reality.

With the understanding that your current reality does not determine your future reality.

"Your past does not equal your future." - Anthony Robbins, author of Awaken the Giant Within : How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny!

You must also be mature enough to be conscious of the fact that it took a while for you to work at feeling negative, as in the end result of what you have attracted in your life did not happen in a day.

And upon mature self analysis you will detected that you have been feeling, saying and thinking negative junk for a while now...

From talking to yourself and speaking to others using words that were not in the affirmative; to feeling and thinking about things that did not make you feel good.

All this had a snow ball effect in your life that built up into your current, unpleasant result.

And the sooner you are mature in your thinking of accepting that, the sooner you can work at building the momentum towards the other side of the spectrum.

Where you Take One Hundred Percent Responsibility Of Your Life and begin to NOW take control of your thinking, your emotions and behavior.

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Just like you worked yourself into this situation, you need to work yourself out of it.

Yours in daily, continuous improvement,


Thursday, October 20, 2011

You Need To Follow Up Your Prayers To God With God-Inspired Action

You might have heard/ read this before but humorous as it might be, in it lies the joke that people play on themselves, of wanting things to change on their own.

"The Universe rewards action." - Dr. Joe Vitale

Moses kept praying to God to win the lottery.

That week he found a dollar on the street and he donated it to charity to show God he is worthy.

The lottery came and went and he didn't win.

So the next week he prayed again, "Please God, let me win the lottery."

He found an extra dollar in his wallet, and decided to donate it to charity.

Again, the lottery came and went.

The third week, he prayed harder "Oh wonderful God, I will feed the hungry and save the whales, just please let me win the lottery."

That week some strange man approached him on the streets and handed him a dollar and again Moses donated it to charity.

The lottery numbers were drawn, and Moses did not win.

The next week Moses was ready to give up, he prayed again.

"God, I have prayed and been good. Why have I not won the lottery?" 

To his amazement, God spoke to him: "Moses, meet me half way. Go buy a ticket."



Wednesday, October 19, 2011

What You Vibrate About You Bring About

"The meaning you give the event, is the event." - Deepak Chopra

Read and do and reread and do the things that Napoleon Hill suggests you do in "Think And Grow Rich" and you will find that in that book, all that Hill was on about was about controlling your vibration.

And once you adjust, on a daily basis, your "vibrational" tone, you could attract the things of similar vibration towards you.

To Napoleon Hill, life is more fluid than it is solid.

The sooner you start interacting with the physical, "knock on wood" stuff, as the effect and begin to see the non-physical as cause, the more successful you will become.

Your daily persistence in integrating all thirteen principles Napoleon Hill wrote in "Think And Grow Rich
" will give you the different perspective you need, in your approach to changing your life for the better, one day at a time.

Because it is your thought, your emotion, your action towards something that produces results.

Perception is everything.

It's a matter of working on directing your thinking, your feelings and your behavior in producing more of the results that will be of benefit to you.

"Work harder on yourself than you do on your work." - Jim Rohn.



Tuesday, October 18, 2011

"If You Fail To Plan, You Plan To Fail."

As stated on an earlier post, to achieve success faster you would need to, at least, "Write Down Your Top 10 Goals You Would Like To Reach Within 12 Months."

If you had no limits, if you had a magic Genie that grants 10 wishes YOU would like to DO, BE or HAVE, what would they be?

And I also recommended you write them on a sheet of paper, because there is Power In The Written Script.

But now I want you to take it a step further by having you creating written plans you believe need to be taken in order for you to reach your goals.

You would need to break the whole into small, manageable chunks that you can do daily, with the inevitable outcome of you reaching your goals.

This is you taking one step after another, walking in the direction of your goal.

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Your goal never moves away from you. It is only you that needs to find ways over, under, around or through obstacles that get in the way of your success.

And with persistence you WILL find a way.

So develop the daily steps you believe will need to be taken in order for you to become successful.

And is through your daily disciplines that your success is assured.

#1. Write your goals down to be reviewed and rewritten, for clarity, daily.

#2. Write down plans you believe you need to take in order for you to reach your goals.

(As a footnote you might want to know that even your plans might need to be reviewed, refined and rewritten, so to keep you on the right track.)


Yours in success,


PS: My advice? Seek out the experts, who have walked the path before you, to SHOW you how it's done.

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Sunday, October 16, 2011

I Don't Know About You But I Don't Agree With All The Things Brian Tracy Says

" doesn’t matter where you’re coming from; all that matters is where you’re going." - Brian Tracy (Update: Originally said by Napoleon Hill in Think And Grow Rich published in 1923).

Well that was until recently when I saw how spot on he was with one of his goal setting principles that you can read now, once you get your hands on Goals!: How to Get Everything You Want -- Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible

Where in it he said you mustn't tell anyone about your goals, expect the people who will help you in reaching your goals.

Now I see that the energy you spend explaining and justifying your goals to others, you could have used to concentrate on progressively reaching your goals.

You also run the risk of people taking your ideas and benefiting from the like Bill Gates did with the Microsoft program.

"Don't tell people what you are going to do. Show them." - Brian Tracy.

That is why Brian Tracy refers to your goals as your Personal Goals.

Another reason that he advices not openly sharing your goals with others is because you might also run the risk of other people - strangers, associates, family members or even your partner -laughing or criticize or running your goals.

Blowing off your goals as something that can never be achieved.

And this "humorous" act has been noted by the likes of Napoleon Hill as one of the leading causes of failure.

So don't give them the opportunity of them limiting your potential by sharing your goals with them.

"Impossible is nothing." - Nike ad Adidas ad.

The first step to reaching your goals, from going from where you are to where you want to be, is to have them written down...

You know what?

Brian Tracy, the Guru of Goal Setting and Goal Achieving will lay it down for YOU clearly and perfectly, once you BUY yourself Goals!: How to Get Everything You Want -- Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible NOW!

Yours successfully,


Thursday, October 13, 2011

Just When You Thought Things Couldn't Get More Worse, They Don't

As some of you know this is, at a metaphysical level, not true.

Whether it be on a conscious level (with you being aware) or at an unconscious level (with you being unaware), you attract what you think about most of the time.

You attract it even faster when there is a powerful emotion attached to what you are thinking about.

Your emotions play a major factor in this law of attraction business.

Because if you are not careful, and you feel bad feelings while thinking about a particular issue, you will attract almost negative event, people and thing under the sun that is similar and supports your negative emotion.

It is therefore not so much about attracting what you think about, as it is about attracting HOW YOU FEEL as you are thinking about whatever it is that is dominating your mind.

In short:

#1. It is Your Emotion that Pulls things, people, events to you.

#2. Your thoughts (your mental image) can become overruled by your emotion.

Say for instance you are thinking about something that will benefit you, but you have a powerful feeling of not deserving it, then the universe will find anything that will support and expand your negative vibration/ emotion instead of the thing you want.

Your emotions are more powerful than your thoughts.

That is why when you think about wanting more money, but feeling feelings of the lack of it, you end up attracting debt.

The alignment of your thought image and the feelings you will feel once you have received your thought image, is key!

Like vibration attracts like vibration.

#3. I repeat, your thoughts are most effective when what you feel, matches what you are thinking about.

What W. Clement Stone and Napoleon Rich called the "Concentration Of Thought" or "Controlled Thinking," in their book "Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude."

It is then that your thought will act as a rudder, directing you closer and closer to what you are thinking about.

Like in the case of you acting as if you have already received what you are desiring.

That "feel-good," "I am MORE" state, of imagining how it we feel like, how it would taste like, how it would smell like, what you would hear and what you will see once you get what you want, is the state that most do not have control over.

And that is why some of us, the top 1 percent the Occupy Wall Street protesters are campaigning against, attracts by design.

While most of us attract by default.

Find out how you can get in the habit of controlling your thinking and how to best manage your emotion from two of the Greatest American Success Coaches of all time, W. Clement Stone and Napoleon Hill in "Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude."

Yours in PMA,


Tuesday, October 11, 2011

What Are Your Top 10 Goals You Would Like To Achieve In A Perfect World?

Action Exercise:

Put pen to paper of the top ten goals you would like to see yourself achieving within the next 12 months.

If you had no bounds, if you had a magic genie in a lamp who, this time around, can grant not only three but TEN WISHES for you, what would they be?

Things that could have you spending sleepless nights.

Things that bother and concern you.

What would need to happen for them to be eleviated from your life?

No matter how "unrealistic" they may sound to you, if you want to see it happen, write it down. This is YOUR PERSONAL GOAL LIST.

Noone has to see it.

The fear of being criticized is one of the things that choke people from succeeding.

"You gotta dream, you gotta protect it. People can do something themselves they wanna tell you, "You can't do it." If you want something, go get it. Period!" - Will Smith playing Chris Gardner, talking to his son about going for your dreams, in the movie The Pursuit Of Happyness.

It's one of the six basic fears that Napoleon Hill wrote about in Think And Grow Rich.

To help you with this list you can do this technique I first read in Dr. Joe Vitale's book Spiritual Marketing:

#1. On the first sheet of paper write up all the things that you don't like, things that are making you feel bad in your life.

#2. On the second sheet of paper, using the first sheet as a reference, write the opposite of what you would rather have in your life, for example, on the first sheet you wrote "I don't like how my car keeps breaking down on me."

Now you write "I want a new car."

The book Spiritual Marketing then goes on to say you need to destroy the first sheet of paper, then, using your second goal list, take up sheet # 3 and write up all your goals in the present tense.

You can beginning your statements with "I am so thankful now that..." affirmations, and then carrying around this 3rd upgraded personal, present, precise goal list with in every where you go.

The idea is for you to take your attention off the things you don't want and on to the pleasure of thinking about the things that you DO want.


Step #1: Make a list of the things you do not want on sheet # 1.

Step #2: Using sheet # 1, write all the things you DO want on sheet #2.

Step #3: Then destroy, tear up, burn your sheet # 1. It is not a reflection of you any more.

Step #4: Using your sheet # 2, write personal, present tense and precise goals.

Be as clear as possible because vague request like "I want more money" produce vague reponse, "You want more money? Here's an extra ten rands."

Step #5: Carry your list around and trust the Universe to attract opportunities for you to take action on, for you to get the things you wrote on your list.

Trust, be aware and act!

Bonus Step #6: Be receptive. Be in the emotional state of the person you will be once your goals on your goal list have been achieved.

You can do this by reading inspiring articles, motivational books, listening to self help audio programs regularly.

Even YouTube has goal achieving tips that will keep you from blocking the good that you are attracting.

Aim for the top ten goals (minimum) you would like to see achieved within the next 12 months - this is your opportunity to dream so let loose!

Be like a kid again.

Matthew 18:3,"Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven..."



Sunday, October 9, 2011

You Must Not Waste Your Time On Meaningless Tasks

Yes I admit it takes discipline for you to succeed.

And the word "discipline" is a word you might avoid because it could mean "work" for you.

It's easier to loaf around than to put your back into it, than for you to pay the price.

That's why most people meet up come weekend time and complain about their life's challenges in between beer sips.

Instead of coming up with practical solutions and empowering perceptions, in the attempt of coming out of the meeting drunk with ideas that will make your life better.

Life is easier when you contribute to its progression.

But when you hold back your skills, abilities, and experience, life seems to throw things - in the form of hurtful experiences - at you as if instructing you to "stop being greedy and start sharing your abundance with others, doing what you love!"

And I believe that is the only REAL success you can ever achieve for yourself:

Spending your days doing what you love.

But I digress.

What I wanted to point out to you is how discipline is a universal thing, you might not see it about you are already disciplined.

You are disciplined in taking a bath, in eating, even disciplined enough to be wearing comfortable fitting clothes.

You are disciplined enough to, God bless you, even be reading this blog.

You are disciplined in making sure you stop when the traffic lights are red, and to proceed when they are green.

You are even disciplined is structuring words in such a way that you can be heard and understood by someone else.

You are disciplined in a lot of things, which at first took some time for you to learn.

Give yourself that learning curve probation period when it comes to your success.

You must remember that success is not the achievement but the continuous progression towards it.

"Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal." - Earl Nightingale, author of The Strangest Secret.

Use your willpower to discipline yourself into becoming a successful individual, a Champion, one daily discipline at a time.

Yours in discipline,


Friday, October 7, 2011

How Do You Become An Influential Person?

For starters, you can begin by reading biographies about influential people.

As you are reading about them, you would need to search and identify what skills sprung out of them that eventually led to the conquering of the challenges they faced.

The challenges that you might be facing now, which might even be of a lesser intensity.

And then consistently experimenting with those skills by you using them in your life to find out, first hand, how effective they are for you.

Because at times life, I'm sure you have noticed, is a series of challenges that are not designed to keep you down, but to build you up.

And life will always teach you the same lessons until you have the courage to use the skills at your disposal in solving your challenges.

That is, until your next challenge arrives.

And so the wheel turns.

You can endure this seasonal process with trepidation or joy.

Sometimes, without the implementation of skill, all you will endure is pain in your life.

Hopefully it will get you feeling so much pain that it will motivate you to now start asking new questions, and opening up to new skills in solving your old problems.

That is why it is so important to associate with those that have mastered and achieved the level of success and skill you want to implement in the betterment of your life also.

So include reading at least one chapter or an inspirational article a day of a skill or principle that you can use, immediately, in your life.

So you can begin to improve your circumstances, one day at a time, one idea at a time, one action at a time, just like the leader and visionary guru Steve Jobs, and others like him, did.

"Success leaves clues." - Tony Robbins



Thursday, October 6, 2011

An Apple A Day...

"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life."

"Because almost everything -- all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure -- these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important."

"Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart."
- Steve Jobs (1955-2011)

News about Steve Jobs

And I was just talking to my girlfriend about how fragile life is.

Almost every modern success mentor I've come across quoted Steve Jobs.

The little that I know of the man was that he was a fighter, a motivator, an innovator and he his bark was as big as his bite, if not bigger.

"Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking."

I love how he stuck to his guns, by not only getting back into Apple but also riding the Apple Macintosh brand up the ranks like I've never seen any other brand do.

And Steve Jobs loved what he did, and he even went as far as encouraging others to never give up in their search for loving what they do and doing what they loved.

"The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it."

Just like he said in the Stanford University Address in 2005, "Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life."

Thank You for the Apple Steve.

You will live on through us.

Love and gratitude,


PS: Success Magazine posted a tribute to the late Steve Jobs and you can find that article via this link >> Success Magazine

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

It's Only Fitting To Find The Fundamentals Of Life In A Hospital

This morning I woke up to a call from my girlfriend, and the only thing I heard was, "...come over" and "...emergency..."

I guess you can tell I'm not a morning person.

In my half sleepy state I some how (thank God) found myself picking up my girlfriend's mum and dad, and began heading over to Lesedi Private Hospital (I thank God for medical aid as well).

It was dad, nothing hectic though.

From my "expert" medical assessment, it was just the result of his body reacting to the liquor and nicotine abuse the body has been enduring, least we mention the negative self talk hammering.

One must have surely have little will to live if she takes things that inflicts damage to the body and the mind.

Have you noticed how it's our lack of self worth that results in our experiences of pain?

With mum accompanying dad to the casualty ward I was left in the waiting area watching some bad TV.

In the waiting area there is a picture hanging on the wall of three sophisticated looking individuals.

It says here the guy in the middle is a doctor, with his mom and dad sitting at his sides.

It was the words written beneath this power trio that captivated me.

They were so powerful, to me at least, that I felt the need to share.

"There are certain things that are fundamental to human fulfillment.

"The essence of these needs is captured in the phrase:

"To Live, to Love, to Learn, to Leave a Legacy..."