Friday, March 30, 2012

Did I tell you how much I Love you?

I woke up from a powerful dream of me courting this new spiritual associate I just recently befriended who, in the dream, I happened to be hopelessly in love with.

I guess you could say my love for her is not limited to the spiritual realm.

I'm of the belief that you can love someone intimately without being intimate with them.

It just had me thinking of how saying the words "I love you" to someone you genuinely love has some elements of some negative meaning for me. Since experience has taught me how those three magical words tend to push away the people I love instead of pulling them in.

"You must unlearn what you have learned."

We live in a world where the words "I love you" means that you want something in exchange for this love.

Maybe it's because of our upbringing, how we where brought up being loved with conditions by our parents, and thus expect the same kind of love from the world. And so we Give our love with conditions.

The conditioned mind.

Even the Bible repeatedly refers to this conditioned love, of how you need to love God or else He will punish you.

But that is not what divine love is.

Love without expecting anything in return, that's Divine Love. That's unconditional love.

That is the love I have for my friend, that's the love I have for you and that's the love I would love to have for the world.

With practice I know I will get there.

All I need to "do" is just Be.

And Love will do the rest.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, March 29, 2012

What is the thing that changes people's lives...?

I've been thinking about what changes people's lives.

Then my subconscious (the master of thumb-sucked answers) shot out the answer of how it's ideas that changes people's lives or maybe even just looking at something differently can do it for you, like I wrote on this post about money here.

That's when I realized that this goes even deeper than ideas or a change in your perception.

ACTION changes lives more than anything else.

Heck, I've heard you can even do it in your sleep...

The only catch I've seen though is that you have to be consistent, and committed in taking action, it needs to be daily, like a daily ritual.

You break the day to day link and you lose the power of your momentum and your success will be long in coming.

And that is why you need leverage.

Most people who wrote down their goals beginning of this year now have legendary excuses of why they didn't follow through on them.

One of the reasons could be that they didn't pick a reason WHY they wanted to achieve their goals.


That's why you might have heard the late, but somehow ever so present - See, Jim Rohn say that the WHY must be bigger than the WHAT.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Could what you be calling assets be in fact your liabilities and you just don't know so you keep getting deeper and deeper into debt...?

If you have friends that go ape over having you increase the amount of liabilities you have, then that means you are one of the broke ones.

If you have friends that are passionate about increasing your (cash flow rich) assets, then you are amongst the few that are rich, or on their way towards becoming rich.

That's the problem with most us, we go nuts over growing our liabilities, which take money out of your pockets, and we are clueless when opportunities to grow our assets, which bring money into our pockets, come by.

Obviously this was by design hence there are more adverts that want you to buy liabilities than there are those that want to buy assets.

Who knows, made the rich strike up a deal with the government so that the rich and can richer at the expense of the poor, I don't know, but what I wanted to bring to your attention is the difference between an asset and a liability.


Something you buy or create for yourself, like a house or a car, that takes money Out Of your pocket.

This obviously increases your monthly expenses it's no wonder you're broke one and a half weeks after payday.


Something you buy or create for yourself, like a house you rent out to paying tenants or a car you rent out to paying courier companies, that puts money Back In your pocket.

This obviously increases your monthly incomes and it's no wonder you receive money from multiple sources and live the way YOU want to live, a life that is not dictated by your alarm clock.

Morale of the story?

Stick around people, or find them, who have acquiring or building assets as goals, because the ones you have right now (the ones that keep telling you to spend your money on liabilities) are the ones that are keeping you broke...not unless you don't mind that sort of thing.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele.

PS: You need financial education and not luck for you to be financially independent - this is when your monthly passive income exceeds your monthly expenses.

That is why your financial education is so important.

The book I would recommend as a starting point for your education is Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money--That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!

This book will make you wise up about how you spend your money, with suggestions of how you could spend it smarter. It's all about your mindset. Is it (your mindset) primed for you to be broke? Is there a way that you can condition it to make you rich?

Buy This Book & Find Out!!

Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money--That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!

Monday, March 26, 2012

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Academic education gets you broke, while financial education gets you financial well of (aka RICH)...

"Once you stop relying on others and learn how to make your financial dreams a reality, you will be a more powerful, successful woman living the life you’ve always wanted..."

...Continue Reading

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Suggestions of how you can keep a positive attitude even when sh** hits the fan...

"Instead of spending your time thinking about how bad things are, think about how good they will be!"

The quote above marks the beginning of a Chris Widener motivational article titled "Keeping Your Attitude Up When Circumstances Are Down."

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

The idea is to be happy, not needy...

"Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want." ~ Jim Rohn

Ask and it is given equals when you ask from a space of neediness, you will receive more opportunities for you to be needy.

But when you ask for an emotional space of already having acquired, then you will receive more opportunities for you to receive.

So Ask it Given, as in ask for it from the mental attitude of already having received what you are wanting.

Be committed and consisted in this new mental attitude of being happy while you are pursuing, and the Universe will produce, by LAW, opportunities for you to receive.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Veronika Lives.

"So how do you do it?"

"How is it possible for you to wear lust on your eyes like contact lenses?" I asked.

She replied, "I will tell you how, as soon as you're done cumming inside me with your mind."

2012 © Musawenkosi Tshoaele. All rights reserved.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Book Review: "Veronika Decides to Die" by Paulo Coelho

After reading "Veronika Decides to Die" by Paulo Coelho, I've come to the conclusion that the world needs more mad people in it.

I am in love with the way Coelho braids this wisdom, that makes for a fulfilling life, in this books through his characters.

With this one, much like "By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept", I'm impressed by how he wrote this book from a woman's perspective, Veronika being the main character in this gripping blue book in question.

A feat on its own taking in to fact that the author is a man.

"Veronika Decides to Die" invites you to "go mad," as in going for those things that make you happy, but you don't for fear of being called mad.

Even though the people who made the greatest impact in this world's history were at first considered to be loco.

I just love how Paulo Coelho was consistent with this message - of daring to go for your dreams - throughout the characters he wrote about in this awesome blue book.

I'm still reeling from the manner in which he presented these teachings for me.

If you want to zone out into a world where you want to come back from feeling refreshed and moved, then you will love "Veronika Decides to Die."

Truly a page turner and so irresistible I finished it over this past weekend.

It's intoxicating and addictive, but then again it was written by Paulo Coelho.

PS. You will love his definition of madness too! Lol! Truly inspirational ♥

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Sunday, March 18, 2012

"Excuse me, but you look absolutely ravishing today and I love you" ^_^

Maybe saying "I love you" is a bit far fetched for you as your compliment to another.

Then again maybe you should ask why this is so and who knows, it might need some clearing of its own.

But at the least look to what you see that pleases you on someone and then compliment them for it.

The best way to feel good is by helping someone else feel good first.

Show love by giving it.

Share your love, the Love that you are, and you will receive it back.

As if to say the best way you can receive is by giving.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: a Happy Birthday to Pat O'Bryan. An author, speaker and internet marketer you can find out more about on

Saturday, March 17, 2012

My madness is working for me, how well is your madness working for you?

Everyone has dreams but most us put off those dreams because of the fear of being criticized by others of how unrealistic we are being.

When in fact these "others" have given up on their dreams and have made it their duty to stop people like you and me from dreaming too.

Who knows, you might have your dreams come true and the ones trying to kill your dreams (for your protection she might say) would end up looking like a fool for all the times she kept telling you you can't.

Oh the humiliation!! And we can't have that now can we?

Being sane is the worst kind of madness there is in this world.

Because now you can't say or do what you feel for fear of being called mad.

You end up not being true to your Self and this inner conflict accumulates and begins to manifest in your life in the form of financial or/ and relational or/ and physical or/ and emotional or/ and spiritual problems.

I'm not suggesting you go around living in the jungle and chopping people's lips off, but what I am suggesting is for you to be true to YOU first.

It's only then that the rest of your world will harmonize within your inner vibration.

As within, so it is without.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Friday, March 16, 2012

One of the remedies for heartache is ACTION...

Pain will last as long as you make it last.

I've said before that pain has its place. I feel that it's your body's way of rebooting itself from the event you thought yourself into.

We create our lives by thought, word and action.

So you did what you did to end up where you are right now.

And as soon as you take ownership of that concept you will empower yourself in beginning to take the first steps that will take you out of your uncomfortable state.

When you feel good you do good. But what if you don't feel good to begin with, then I suggest you change your state.

Talking sometimes won't change an emotion, but action will.

Thank you.

I'm sorry.

Please forgive me.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Always remember to be in an attitude of gratitude

One day, someone will walk in your life and show you how good you have it.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

The "Garbage Truck" story I remembered this past Sunday...

This past Sunday I had the fortunate pleasure of being with a friend I've last seen since like forever!

During our life improving, goal strengthening conversation she reminded me of a story I once read on those mostly useless forwarded emails you get at work.

This one hit home because I believe I was playing victim in a situation where I could have easily have been an observer.

As in no one can hurt you without your consent.

Easier said than done, that's why I wrote this Tony Robbins post for you, maybe it might help.

But nevertheless it is the truth.

The story I wanted to share with you can be found here.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

What do you do with your physical body when you are angry?

"Think of something you imagine you can't do but would like to be able to do.

Now how would you stand if you knew you could do it? How would you talk? How would you breathe?

Right now, put yourself as congruently as possible in the physiology you would be in if you knew you could do it.

Make your whole body give you the same message. Make your stance, breathing and face reflect the physiology you'd have if you knew you could do it.

Now note the difference between this state and the one you were in.

If you are congruently maintaining the right physiology, you will feel "as if" you can handle what you didn't think you could before."
~ See Anthony Robbins Facebook Page

Tony Robbins, author of "Awaken The Giant Within" and the continuous, take-you-by-the-hand 30 Day audio program Anthony Robbins' Personal Power II The Driving Force!, is the life coach responsible for getting me consciously aware of these triggers.

Tony calls them triggers because he has discovered that what you do with your body has a direct effect to how you feel.

Check out this video of him being interviewed on The Hour to see what I mean.

@TonyRobbins says when something bad happens, you immediately start your physiological ritual of being in a state of anger, for example.

☀ You might clinch your fists

☀ You pout your lips

☀ You begin shallow breathing

☀ Since your lips are tight you then inhale and exhale through your nose

☀ You frown your eye brows

☀ Your shoulders go upright and tight

☀ Your level of intelligence stops - that's when you start saying stupid things

☀ You feel your body getting tense...

Everyone is unique so everyone might have a different ritual than you, but we all have them.

It's time you become aware of them and to stop doing them if they are doing more harm than good.

So if I have an angry ritual does it mean I can have a happy ritual instead? Or even a passionate or powerful or attractive or lovable or energetic or invincible ritual too?

Hell yeah!

There where times in your life when you were in on or more of those emotional states.

It's just a matter of triggering those physical anchors or even creating new ones, that slam you into that desired state instantly!

This Tony Robbins 30 Day Audio Program will show YOU how when you BUY it from Amazon » Anthony Robbins' Personal Power II The Driving Force!

Live With Passion!!

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Live events are awesome but if you don't have that regular check up from your "coach" to remind you of the continuous and daily action you need to be committed to in order to eventually SEE and FEEL the success and happiness you want, chances are that you will take longer to achieve it.

See this audio program as having Tony Robbins in your car or home or laptop where you can reach out to him anytime of your day for strength, motivation and courage to Take That Massive Action that will lead you to your Massive Results.

I vouch for this audio program as the only program YOU will ever NEED when it comes to your on-going, successful personal development!!

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Sunday, March 11, 2012

Never limit what you want to have by your current environment...

We tend to look at the things we have, the things we have grown tired of, and base our future expectations on our uninspiring current results.

We base our next move on what is possible, instead of what is IMpossible.

In this way we limit ourselves because what we really, Really want seems impossible for us.

We settle for the second best in life.

The stories we tell ourselves of why the best is not possible in our lives is what is called your limiting beliefs.

Beliefs that need to be "cleaned" away so that you can achieve the best that you want.

This blog post here will show you what I mean by "cleaning" away your limiting beliefs.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Never feel entitled to anything you never worked for. You gotta earn it to deserve it...

Earl Shoaff ~ "Life does not give us what we need; life gives us what we deserve."

Hope you will enjoy this Jim Rohn article as much as I did this morning.

You can read it here.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, March 8, 2012

You. Ask. It. Given.

When you push against the things you don't want, you tend to get more of them.

As you are saying "No, I don't want this" you are actually calling it towards you.

So the trick is to stop pushing against what you don't want and focus your attention on what you do want.

When you do that you alter your emotional vibration so that it can be in alignment with what you want.

And now that you are vibrating in the same vibration with the things you do want, due to the law of vibration, you will attract the opportunities that allow you to achieve your goals.

Like vibration attracts like vibration.

So your work is to find reasons and processes that allow you to feel good and feel like you are receiving what you want for yourself, and you will then be working towards achieving with ease instead of achieving by struggling.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Committing to your new daily success rituals will allow you to live a life free from struggle, due to your new understanding of how Life and you work.

There is a book that can help you out with processes that can train you into being in alignment with your desires - this alignment makes you achieve your goals faster than if you weren't in alignment.

And that book is called Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires.

You can click on this image below to read what other people have to say about the benefits that they have and continue to receive from these teachings of Happiness.

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Clean so you can clear your way into your happiness!!

We psychologically hold on to things that hurt us.

I can't say for sure why you do it, but I do it as evidence to justify the wrong that someone else did to me.

So that I can tell others "See?! Look what she has done to me!"

Always playing victim and not the instigator.

We create our lives through our dominate feelings.

If you feel hurt most of the time, you will attract more hurt than pleasure in your life.

If you feel happy (or at least contempt) most of the time, you will attract more happiness than hurt in your life.

If you were to really read what I wrote above you will see that even if you have a good heart, bad things can happen to you to.

If you have an evil heart, good things can happen to you.

Don't be of the vain thinking that you are immune to this.

It's how you deal with these challenges that determines the result you get, and therefore your life.

Adopt the habit of looking at your challenges from the top down, instead of from the bottom up.

And practice daily the Hawaiian mental cleansing process Ho'oponopono that Dr. Len and Dr. Joe Vitale have prepared for you in Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: If you don't have the things you want in your life right now, that means you have a mental blocker (in a form of a subconscious belief) that is not allowing you to experience the joy and happiness and success in having the things you desire.

You will need to clear this hidden belief inside you by you the technique outlined and ready for you to use in Zero Limits

And here is a Kindle Edition for you for you immediate access:

Monday, March 5, 2012

You Need to Keep Your Eye on the Ball, No Matter the Storm

"If you're constantly thinking about what you don't have, it's hard to get excited about the blessings you do have," [Lisa]Price says.

Thought you might be interested with this article I bookmarked via DailyFinance

I love you,

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tony Robbins Interview on The Hour [Video]

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Anthony (Tony) Robbins has done such a job well done with his exciting and involved 30 day audio program that even just saying the words "Tony Robbins" has become a positive anchor for me!! do know what I mean by "positive anchor" right?

If YOU don't then get in line and go BUY yourself "Anthony Robbins' Personal Power II The Driving Force!" audio program at and LIVE WITH PASSION!!

Saturday, March 3, 2012

"Emotions Are The Driving Forces In Our Lives." ~ Tony Robbins

You know, not so long ago I wrote you an update about what you can physically do, right now, to make yourself feel better if you find yourself feeling depressed.

To get to that article you need to Click Here.

You will also find this Youtube video insightful since it's also related to the update I recommend for you to read in the both paragraph.

Never allow yourself to be addicted to your painful, negative rituals.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, March 1, 2012

If You Can't Dream You Are DEAD!!

I used to hang around people who used to criticize my dreams.

They didn't do it with evil their hearts, they just thought I was joking and laughed it off with some form of sarcasm or told me how I should stop kidding myself, etc, etc.

Experience has taught me to never argue my dreams on people who either don't have dreams of their own, or would rather endure their current sufferings instead of taking the needed action to get to where they want to be.

There are individuals out there who feed off misery.

So do not give them that chance by telling them your dreams and how you are going to go about reaching them.

These "Vampire Suckers" can go from your spouse to your best friend.

I mean, are they supportive or do they keep telling you to stop dreaming?

Stay away from those that hold you back, and surround yourself with those that have your back.

By "staying away" I mean seeing less of them.

If you are a dreamer like me, you will love this Dr. Wayne Dyer article.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Life, a successful life, is all about how you manage your state.

Yesterday's post will show you how.