We psychologically hold on to things that hurt us.
I can't say for sure why you do it, but I do it as evidence to justify the wrong that someone else did to me.
So that I can tell others "See?! Look what she has done to me!"
Always playing victim and not the instigator.
We create our lives through our dominate feelings.
If you feel hurt most of the time, you will attract more hurt than pleasure in your life.
If you feel happy (or at least contempt) most of the time, you will attract more happiness than hurt in your life.
If you were to really read what I wrote above you will see that even if you have a good heart, bad things can happen to you to.
If you have an evil heart, good things can happen to you.
Don't be of the vain thinking that you are immune to this.
It's how you deal with these challenges that determines the result you get, and therefore your life.
Adopt the habit of looking at your challenges from the top down, instead of from the bottom up.
And practice daily the Hawaiian mental cleansing process Ho'oponopono that Dr. Len and Dr. Joe Vitale have prepared for you in Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More
I love you.
~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele
PS: If you don't have the things you want in your life right now, that means you have a mental blocker (in a form of a subconscious belief) that is not allowing you to experience the joy and happiness and success in having the things you desire.
You will need to clear this hidden belief inside you by you the technique outlined and ready for you to use in Zero Limits
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