First have a Goal, second have Faith, finally Take Action!
Goal - know where you are going. How can you know you've arrived when you don't know where you are going?
Faith - believe in the unseen goal, believe that you can have it. In fact, believe that you already have it.
Action - take the action you feel you need to take right now, daily, to get the results you want.
And that's the thing with action, all action does is to produce a result. Avoid calling the results you don't want as failures, call them what they are...results.
And if the result are not what you want then tweak the methods you are using until you GET the RESULTS you want.
All the while having faith and focusing on your goal(s).
Believe that change is possible for you.
Know where you are going.
Have faith that you WILL arrive in your destination.
And this will be so due to the actions you are taking, EVERY DAY, towards reaching your goals.
I love you.
~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele