Tuesday, July 31, 2012

The Law of Attraction Will Work For YOU When YOU Apply It On Purpose

"The Secret is the mastering of the vibration you are emitting."
~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

David Schirmer shared the following link and had this to say about it:

"Listen to this weeks insights on success and Law of Attraction: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/the-secret-millionaire/2012/07/30/david-schirmer-from-the-secret-mentoring-you-to-success"

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, July 26, 2012

The Reason Why Most Relationship Fail Is Because...

...You’ve made it your partners job to make you happy.

And when they don’t, you get mad at them for not fulfilling their end of the partnership.

As if this is some unwritten law all relationships must abide by, no thanks to the soapies and sitcoms and movies we watch or the novels we read.

"You aren’t fun to me anymore."

"You aren’t making me as happy as you did before."

"What you are doing to me does not make me feel good."

When you come from the point of view that it’s your partner’s responsibility to make you feel good, or that you are nothing without your partner or that you aren’t whole when you partner doesn’t interact with you, then you are putting yourself at the mercy of your partner’s action.

You aim in any relationship then is to share the love you already have for yourself already.

That way you do not come from a powerless emotional place but from an empowered one.

Know Thy Self

To put it into context rather: LOVE Thy Self.

Which a lot of people DO NOT do...

For instance, listen to how many times you criticize yourself during the course of your day.

How is that loving yourself when you say things like:
  • "I’m not good enough”
  • "I don’t deserve it”
  • "Why did I say that?! I’m so stupid!”
  • "How could I say that, I’m such an idiot!”
  • "I’ll never get that, I should stop trying”
  • "I will never win”
  • "I will always be a loser”
  • "This is how things are and will always be”

You keep at this long enough and you will come to believing it.

Most people tend to associate these negative affirmations with love because they have heard them all their lives from people they cared about.

Negative conditioning.

I mean I care about this person, you tell yourself, and if they keep on telling me things that don’t make me feel good, surely that’s how love feels like.

But I digress.

Surround your environment with things that make you feel good.

Begin to slowly and consciously talk to yourself in a more supportive and caring way.

Do and hang around more things and people that make you feel good.

Smile more.

Laugh more.

Appreciate more.

Criticize less.

Praise more.

Bless more.

Realize that the power to feel loved lies with you right now.

And for you to receive love you need to give love...that means you’ve always had it in you to give.

Thank you.

And I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

You Don't "Need" Love Since You ARE Love

One of the things that make relationships fail is when you expect & anticipate to be validated by your partner.

You are outer directed.

Basing how you feel on how someone else treats you puts at the mercy of the other person's moods.

Gambling with your emotions is not a good idea.

Emotional roller coaster anyone?

You need to love YOU first.

Sincerely and without restraint.

When you build yourself up with self praise, a genuine love for yourself, you will never be tugged by the puppet strings of any outside force.

You will then be inner directed.

No one has the power to tell you how you must feel. It's you that decides that.

This is not an overnight thing though.

Like any other new habit it needs to be conditioned.

Daily disciplines.

Daily rituals.

Of self love.


So I love you.

But you don't need my love now do you?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

The things you take for granted...

I've been meditating on this abundance concept Dr. Joe Vitale of the $0.99c "Attract Money NOW!" fame brought to my attention via his latest blog update.

Something I'm sure you will find as an insightful read when you click here.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Monday, July 23, 2012

"Take the first step in faith..."

"...You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step."
~ Martin Luther King Jr.

It's said that a journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.

What most don't know is that when you take this (action) step on a day to day basis, they compound and thus accelerate your efforts into giving you faster results.

Take this philosophy of this 1cent that you double every day aka an idea you take action on every day. Call it your daily discipline. Something I gathered from reading this incredible book "The Slight Edge":

1 + 1 = 2
2 + 2 = 4
4 + 4 = 8
8 + 8 = 16
16 + 16 = 32
32 + 32 = 64
64 + 64 = 128
128 + 128 = 256
256 + 256 = 512
512 + 512 = 1024
1024 + 1024 = 2048
2048 + 2048 = 4096
4096 + 4096 = 8192
8192 + 8192 = 16384
16384 + 16384 = 32768
32768 + 32768 = 65536
65536 + 65536 = 131072
131072 + 131072 = 262144
262144 + 262144 = 524288
524288 + 524288 = 1048576
1048576 + 1048576 = 2097152
2097152 + 2097152 = 4194304
4194304 + 4194304 = 8388608
8388608 + 8388608 = 16777216
16777216 + 16777216 = 33554432
33554432 + 33554432 = 67108864

On day 27 your 1c efforts of taking daily action (that will therefore compound on top of one another) towards your worthwhile idea, are already worthy 67,108,864!!!

So go as far as you can see, taking an inspired (action) step or two daily in that direction, your efforts will rocket launch you into success.

Success in relationships.

Success in finances.

Success in health.

Just take the first step...

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Sunday, July 22, 2012

How to Feel Good No Matter What!

I couldn't leave you hanging there with my last short post about inspiration.

How do you feel inspired when you currently feel anything BUT inspiration?

Making it your ritual daily to listen to at least 10 minute of motivational audios could be the answer for you

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Having someone successful and makes it their life's work to encourage you to act on your inspiration can be a priceless gift for you.

That's why I'm in love with the likes of people like Bob Proctor.

The post below will introduce you to this lifetime friend, who will be with you all your days in the form of his free mp3 recordings - in this case anyway - that I suggest you listen to daily for your motivation and success condition.

Saturday, July 21, 2012

BE Inspired THEN Take Action

When you pull all your efforts into just taking action without first aligning with your positive emotions, the results will take long in coming to you.

For faster results, first BE inspired THEN take action.

Why do you think you hear of people who "love their job"?

They take inspired action all the time.

Feel good then act!

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Free Bob Proctor Audio Mp3 Downloads

Free Bob Proctor audio mp3 downloads of his "Freedom Series" can be accessed at http://t.co/kgKxsgok.

Well that's until he pulls his site down or starts charging.

Please do me a favor and kindly share this with as many people as you can just in case he does charge or takes it down.

What's the catch?

Your name and your email, which at last count were both free to give

Bob Proctor's free Freedom Series audios await you.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

If You Have Siblings Under Your Care You Need to Ready This...

I received a delightful email referring me to an article that was related to a previous blog post I wrote.

The sender asked if I could share this article with you. It's entitled “10 Tips for Keeping Peace Among Siblings” and can be accessed over at http://www.babysitting.net/blog/10-tips-for-keeping-peace-among-siblings/.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: I love the part about being taught never to go to bed angry. For some very interesting tips for parents and caregivers about how best to handle siblings, see “10 Tips for Keeping Peace Among Siblings”

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

The Book that Taught Me "Powerful Lessons In Personal Change"

I was a relentless reader when I was younger.

The thicker the better.

I used to come in the library and pick a book, any book I was drawn to, read it, and if it held my interest I borrowed it and took it home with me.

One of those books was a non-fiction book, which was uncanny of me since I loved fictional books.

But then again I liked to mixed it up a little.

Thank God my parent didn't have me diagnosed with ADHD - I mean where's the fun in being normal?

This book spoke about being principle-centered and paradigms.

How change comes from the inside-out and not from the outside-in.

And how I should pay the price day in and day out to achieve true mastery.

The book also encouraged me to see things from a different view point.

How I should focus on the results and not the methods.

And how I should switch from being problem-oriented to being solution-oriented.

This book brought concept to my mind that revolutionarized my thinking.

The author was a the co-founder of FranklinCovey Co. that can be seen on this website www.StephenCovey.com.

The news of his death was reported here.

And when you click on the image below, you will be able to read the review about the very first self help book I've ever read, and be able to get a copy for yourself too:

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele


Between stimulus and response, man has the freedom to choose.
~ Dr. Stephen R. Covey:
family man, businessman, consultant, teacher, and best-selling author of
"The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People"

Friday, July 13, 2012

The Love for My Baby Sister & What it Has Taught Me

My sister came back home for her 2nd semester break.

It's an awesome time when she's around. Something priceless about it.

We are the only two siblings in the family, with her being the youngest (and somehow the smartest), so I appreciate the time I am with her since she spends most of her time in res' (residents) while studying at the Pretoria University.

She brings out the best in me. And I love her beyond reason for that, amongst other things.

I say this because one day I decided to really hear HER views and what SHE thought instead of forcing her to think and see things MY way.

Something she never yielded to, and I love her for that.

I used to question and probe and even try to manipulate her into seeing things my way.

But I never could and I'm glad she never gave in to my selfish need for gratification.

She is an individual.

She is unique.

There is no one exactly like her in the world.

She truly is a once in a lifetime phenomena.

And wanting her to be any other way takes the fun out of my association with her. Because I get the most out of her when I allow her to just be her, to just be awesome.

I also cut myself short of my personal development in a way by wanting her to surrender to my will.

Because I don't allow myself to experience the joy in having an opposing view. I get moody and feel like my ego as been being wronged in a way.

And I think that's when conflict begins, not in my intimate relationship with my beautiful sister but in all relationships.

As in when I make it an ego-based interaction and not a love-based interaction.

I don't know maybe this is coming through due to my current read by billionaire Dale Carnegie, How to Influence People and Win Friends, which by the way amazon has a kindle version of going for under $13 at the time of this posting.

But like any other self help material offering you life improving tools, the money is in the application...not the knowledge.

I'm having a joyous time with people that I love not because I KNOW what I know thanks to the success principles I come across, but because I USE what I KNOW.

Lawrence Fishburne playing the character Morpheus in the movie The Matrix said it best when he said, “There's a difference between knowing the path, and walking the path."

I might as well not know it if I don't use it right?

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: Most go through their entire lives not knowing how to handle people, even though they come across them every day, yes, nowadays this includes emails and social media.

It is for this reason that the mother of all textbooks in this regard was written.

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The best investment you can ever make is in people and How to Influence People and Win Friends can show you how YOU can WIN them over.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Motivation doesn't last, that's why it's recommended daily...

"When you know what you want, and want it bad enough, you will find a way to get it."
— Jim Rohn

The above quote is one of many a daily quotes I diligently receive in my inbox thanks to the FREE email subscription with the Nightingale website.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

If you want things in your life to change, change the things in your life

I've been wondering what makes that guy look so successful...

I also scratched my head in awe and interest of what makes that lady look so powerful...

My, my don't they look sophisticated, I smile to myself in admiration as I walk on by.

Yes, the sense of integrity they have in their dress sense counts.

The car they drive might be a factor.

But I feel if you were to strip those things away, they will resonate with success or power or sophistication still.

Maybe it's the belief they hold about themselves.

And that belief makes them walk taller and with purpose and have this penetrating focus in their eyes.

Maybe it's their charm and enthusiasm and how their are quick to smile and laugh, as if having being taught to do so by the vacation sun while enjoying a tan at some exotic beach in some Mediterranean island.

Their commanding voice projection, and how they aren't afraid to look you in the eye for longer than a 17 seconds could be added to their arsenal.

Could it be that they were influenced to act in such mannerisms by the company they keep of equally (if not more) successful, powerful and sophisticated associates?

Is it the kind of books they read or maybe the stuff they listen to?

Do they attend to training programmes or (web)seminars or workshops regularly?

Are they picky about what kind of thoughts they think about?

Maybe they have mentors or life coaches...

Surely they meditate or pray...

How about maybe they exercise...

...Who knows maybe it's some or all of the above.

But one thing is certain and that is they do different things that set their vibration in a different way.

It's not what you think about but how you think about what you think about that makes the difference in your vibes.

And when you think about things that make you feel good, you are in a positive vibration. Which in turn will attract positive people and opportunities that you must take inspired action on so to bring in positive results.

It's all in your head.

So bless and praise and appreciate all day and all night.

Not for their sake but for yours.

Make what happens in your life work FOR you and not AGAINST you - by giving it a positive, or at least a hopeful, meaning to it.

Perception IS everything.

I thank you.

And I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Monday, July 9, 2012

How to Achieve Success by Managing Your "State"

What makes the successful person - successful in health or/ and relationships or/ and finances - successful?

It is in how she manages her state on a consistent basis. Her state, not only of mind, but in her body positioning too.

By mimicking the powerful and successful people you look up to, you can begin developing the habit of being in a successful state most of the time.

Anthony (Tony) Robbins mentions this briefly in this video interview here, and WHY this "trick" can boost your success rate in your daily life as early as RIGHT NOW if you begin to use it.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ MT

Saturday, July 7, 2012

I was just thinking about you and I was wondering...

It's the middle of the year.

And all I want to know is if whether you are happy.

Nothing outside of yourself has to necessarily fall into place for you to be happy.

It begins with you, now.

You have the power.

You can start by smiling ^_^

Taking a deep breath and then exhale slowly.

But keep smiling.

You've always pulled through.

You've always found a way.

Take it one day at a time.

But work on your thinking first.

Feel better than you are feeling now.

It helps if you start showing appreciation for the stuff around you.

But keep smiling.

You might not know how, but things will work out for you in the end.

Just remember to sleep with a smile, and in the morning mentally note the things you feel appreciation for as you wake up so you can wake up with a smile.

Your #1 goal is to feel good.

















Whatever it is, make sure your day is full of it.

Your physical results are only temporary when you decide to dominate your days with good feeling thoughts.

You take yourself wherever you go.

Your actions mean nothing if how you are thinking about what you are thinking about doesn't feel good.

Monitor how you think.

Focus on what you do want.

Daydream a little.

Be compelled to action by your <b>in</b>spiration.

It really is an inside job - of love.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Friday, July 6, 2012

What the Purpose of Life Is according to an Unusual Hawaiian Therapist...

"The purpose of life is to be restored back to Love, moment to moment. To fulfill this purpose, the individual must acknowledge that he is 100 percent responsible for creating his life the way it is. He must come to see that it is his thoughts that create his life the way it is moment to moment. The problems are not people, places, and situations but rather the thoughts of them. He must come to appreciate that there is no such thing as 'out there.'"
~ Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len
from the ground-breaking best seller by Dr. Joe Vitale & Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len
"Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More."

I love you.

I'm sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Appreciation for You...

I appreciate your eyes that you are using right now to read this.

I appreciate your ears that hear all sorts of wonderful sounds and blissful noises.

I appreciate your nose that take deep breaths to enjoy the privilege of this clean air you are blessed with.

I appreciate your tongue that tastes all sorts of delicious flavors you can choose from in abundance.

I appreciate your skin as it allows you to feel those thrilling goose bumps of orgasmic excitement.

I appreciate your sixth sense that talks to you and, if you heed these hunches and develop the habit of trusting your gut, lead you to new worlds that bring positive life results for you.

What I'm trying to say here is that I Appreciate YOU.

Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Your Emotional Guidance System & the Process of Pivoting

Your emotions are your guidance system that tell you that (1) what you are thinking about is making you feel good or bad and (2) that you are in the process of attracting to yourself the essence of your good or bad thoughts.

As the *creative being* you are, you are always creating with your thoughts and attracting with your feelings.

What you attract is determined by the feelings you feel. No matter what the thought, if you are feeling bad as you are thinking it, the essence of your negative feelings will be attracted to you.

On the flip side, if you are feeling good as you are thinking about something, the essence of your positive, feel good feelings will come to you.

So it helps to monitor *how* you think about what you are thinking about because this determines *how* you feel.

Ask yourself, "Now that I'm feeling negative vibes, thanks to the alerts I getting from my emotional guidance system, I guess I'm not getting what I want. So, what is it that I *DO* want?"

And wait until you get your first answer.

Once you get your answer, from that improve feeling place ask again what is it that you *DO* want.

And continue the process until you literally think your way out that negative emotion.

*With practice* you will get better at this "Process of Pivoting."

My emotional guidance system harmonizes with this process that allows me to return back to the Well-Being of my Spirit, but maybe this process doesn't fit just right with yours.

That's why I suggest you go over the processes mentioned in my current read (which I will refer to you below), so to get what you're inspired to act on.

First is Inspiration, Second is Inspired Action.

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

PS: What you feel will always overthrow what actions you take. You need to feel good first and then take inspired action so to accelerate the process of success. Processes and principles of how - and more importantly *WHY* - you can achieve this fast track to life improvement are lovingly laid out in "Money, and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness"

"Where do you get your free ebooks?"

A friend of mine asked where I get my free ebooks.

This was the answer I gave her:







Thank you.

I love you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

How to Pray

"God looks not at the oratory of your prayers, how elegant they may be; nor at the geometry of your prayers, how long they may be; nor at the arithmetic of your prayers, how many they may be; not at the logic of your prayers, how methodical they may be; but at the sincerity of them He looks at." ~ Thomas Brooks

Chicken Soup for the Soul:" A Picture in a Prayer"

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Money and the Law Of Attraction Quote: Bonus Quote

"As you continue to ask yourself, from your ever-changing vantage point, "What is it that I do want?" eventually you will be standing in a very pleasing place - for you cannot continually ask yourself what it is that you do want without your point of attraction beginning to shift in that direction...The process will be gradual, but your continued application of the process will yield wonderful results in only a few days."
~ Abraham (Visit www.Abraham-Hicks.com),
"Money and the Law Of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness."

I love you.

Thank you

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Monday, July 2, 2012

Money and the Law Of Attraction Quote: Bonus Quote

"That really is all that the Process of Pivoting is: deliberately looking for a more positive way - a better-feeling way - to approach whatever you are giving your attention to."
~ Abraham (Visit www.Abraham-Hicks.com), in "Money and the Law Of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness."

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Money and the Law Of Attraction Quote: Bonus Quote

"When you allow that negative emotion to continue over a long period of time, you often experience deterioration of your physical body."
~ Abraham (Visit www.Abraham-Hicks.com), in "Money and the Law Of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness."

I love you.

Thank you.

~ Musawenkosi Tshoaele