I was chatting with a friend of mine and we were just speaking about challenges in life with regards to the law of attraction.
She was the one who pointed out that to attract the things you want you need to come from a place of faith.
Being desperate only pushes it away from you.
And I have been attracting from an emotional state of desperation.
In effect repelling from an emotional state of desperation.
As a step towards turning things around we suggested an action assignment, but inspired by The Secret.
Of making a list of the things you are happy and grateful for with your current (in our case intimate relationship or work) situation.
On some "I am happy and grateful now... (and then write what you are grateful about)."
Well this could be a start.
Just to first first shift the focus.
Hoping it expands.